Sunday, January 25, 2015

Listening, Speaking and Altruism (Self)

Just spent my weekend trying to have a conversation with my son who is distracted when in his school.  I think this is one of the most difficult task to do for any parent. I think I am able to communicate with my son.. but getting a point across is a tough thing. I have been trying to get his screen time to a minimum as it helps him focus for longer duration of time for his studies, otherwise he want's a break and have his screen time. I frequent www.ted.com and have an TED app on my phone. As you know there are lot of good minds who speak in these events.  ( links below are from www.youtube.com for the content published by TED)

So I did a bit of research and found that  
  1. If we can listen 
  2. Can speak in a way other will listen 
  3. Let altruism be our guide.. 
We will be lot happier, smarter and joyful in life.. 

Following are the 3 videos that I asked my son to watch and tasked  him to explain what he thought .. we did a bit of search in the dictionary to understand what words meant in the videos. I would say the following 34 minutes will be worth every minute of your time (Link in the bottom for meditation if you are interested in it)

1) How to speak so that people want to listen ( ~10 minutes)
   
2) 5 ways to listen better( ~8 minutes)

3) How to let altruism be your guide( ~16 minutes)




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Tuesday, January 20, 2015

Graha Yuddha ( Planetary War) in Astrology

Graha Yuddha in Vedic Astrology is term used for as a Planetary war between two planets. Planetary war occurs when two planets are within one degree of each other, either in the same sign or in adjacent signs. the planets which hold lower degree is winner and the planet which have high degree is loser. Graha yuddha can be happen in only in five planets; Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter and Saturn. All planets are moving in their own (elliptical) path around Sun. During rotation when they come on top of each other as seen from earth in their own orbit. Due to the distance from earth it look like these planets are together, even though in reality they are separated by large distance, but their rays affects each other. This phenomenon is termed ‘Graha Yuddha’ or ‘planetary war. Sun, Moon, Rahu and Ketu are never at war with any planet. Close conjunction with Sun causes Combustion while that of Moon is known as ‘Sam agama’.

Depending on various factors, defeated planets lose their power and not able to produce good results. The defeat planet (especially as Ascendant lord) can suffer dramatically.  Losing its power as house lord and as (significator) karaka over matters it rules.  The house in which this phenomenon occurs is destroyed and the individual suffers  This condition can also be observed with transiting planets.

In Astrology Text there are four types of planetary war depending on their longitude e.g, Bheda, Ullekha, Amsu Mardana and Apasavya.

1. Bheda: When two planets in a same direction and overlapping, they fight in Bheda (occultation). In this case the planet nearer to us on earth completely obstructs the farther one. This is also known by the name Chandanam (occultation)

2. Ullekha: When the rims of two planetary touch each other but does not overlap, it is called Ullekha. In other words, when the graha-bimbas (discs) of planets seem to touch each other (sparsha) it is called Ullekha. This is also known by the name Rodhanam (obstruction)

3. Amsu-mardana: When the rays of two planets appear to clash each other, it is known as Amsu-mardana. Another name for this kind of planetary war is Kirana sanghatana (clash or rays) and yet another name is Rashmi-mardana (clash of rays)

4. Apasavya: When a planet's disc, covering each other moves south (in opposite direction, in retrograde motion), Apasavya occurs. This is also known by the name Apasavya
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Base on the significance (karaka) and house rulership of the will suffer or gain accordingly.
Suppose one planet defeats another planet. This means that the people will give problems to other people and the leaders represented by the losing planet will suffer.

Example: if Venus and mars have conjunction and if Venus have more degree than Mars and Venus will be defeated in planetary war by Mars. the person will suffer in all Venus stuff like relationship, women, love, and creativity. The person will be have more martian energy and can be aggressive and good fighter. The person also suffer in where planets sitting in the birth chart as well as what house they rule in the birth chart.  


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Friday, January 9, 2015

Venus in Different House Astrology

Effects of Venus in the Houses

Venus in the First House: Venus is in the first house (ascendant) The person is good looking and attractive in nature. The person have balanced, charming, indecisive, try to please everyone and harmonious in nature. May loved by women/men. Fond of ornaments, good dresses, and beauty. The have an attractive body, charming eyes and always smiling and try to be happy all the time.

Venus in the Second House: The person will be sensual and will get good food to eat, will have attractive eyes. The person will be eloquent or pleasant speaker and will enjoy good food and drinks. The person is materialistic in nature and want to have good bank balance. The person have beautiful face and like to dress well. The person have love for  family and friend and like to spend time with family and friends.

Venus in the Third House: The person is talented and have good hand skill related with Venus. The person good in artistic design, sewing cloths and also interested in acting and music. The person is fun and adventurous loving and like to travel. The person have love for his/her siblings and like to have fun with them. The person May have good neighbors and have good relation with them.

Venus in the Fourth House: Venus is in the fourth house is good because Venus in 4th house have double strength ( digbala). The person have good relations, and have loving mother. The person more concerned with inner peace and try to be happy. The person will possess a good conveyance, good house, and dresses. The person is happy go lucky and will have happiness from mother.

Venus in the Fifth House: The person is very creative and interested in drama and acting. The person have love for children and gambling. The person will be romantic and May have many love affairs. Venus in fifth is good for making money through speculation, gambling and from arts. The person is fun loving and like to spend time in recreational activities. The person can be interested in poetry.

Venus in the Sixth House: Venus is in the sixth house is not good but nothing is good and nothing is bad. The person will have good relations with maternal side of family. Sixth house is of servants, and the person is fortunate to have helpers, especially females helpers. The person can suffer from diseases related with Venus and their relationship with people prone to be in conflicts.

Venus in the Seventh House: Venus is in the seventh house is a good placement. 7th house is of partnership and spouse. Here person is very loving and balanced nature and keeps partner and spouse happy. The person is business oriented and like to make money through business deals.  The person will be very influential with the help of his/her spouse and will be interested in opposite sex. 

Venus in the Eighth House: Venus in 8th house not considered good. The person will be interested in metaphysical, occult science and will have over passionate nature. Due to over passionate nature the person will be discontented in sexual life. The person is very secretive in love and May have love for in-laws side of family. The person May get money from wife or in inheritance.

Venus in the Ninth House: The ninth house is the most auspicious house in astrology. Venus is in the ninth house is like a Venus in the house of God and well protected. Here Venus will be looking for higher form of love. The person will be religious minded, will devote in higher learning and will perform religious rites. The person will fortunate and get life where they can progress in life spiritually

Venus in the Tenth House: Venus is in the tenth house, the person will be full of glory. The person will be famous in work place and have more females to work with. The person will enjoy world wide reputation. The person is very cheerful and charming at work place. The person interested in materialistic gain and May have artistic career. The person is progress in career due to their diplomatic nature. 

Venus is in the eleventh house: The person will have high ambition for love, wealth, luxury and enjoyments. The person is very social and have love for community. The native will be happy and will enjoy large financial gains. The native will be well behaved, reputed, fortunate, wealthy and happy. The person popular in social circle and have large friend circle.

Venus in the Twelfth House: The person will have the interest in music, meditation, and relaxing.  The person have love for the universe and kind hearted and want to help others without in return. The person will have all comforts of bed (sexual pleasures) and will go to higher plane after death. The person know how to enjoy loneliness and secretive in nature. The person will be lazy and live in his own world.


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