If we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble :-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it.. but just do it like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards down and be who we are without any pretension. For a marriage to work there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
- Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
- Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
- Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
- Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
- Aggression, argument and fighting (Mars)
- Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
- Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
- Learning, teaching, higher wisdom (Jupiter)
- Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
For
this conversation we will consider Saturn as a planet in relationship,
its influences and how it can get us near a divorce if we don't
understand it the subconscious influences and change our habits and
approach in relationship.
Saturn is the planet of responsibility, limitation, boundaries , truth of life etc. It teaches to live in reality, commitment , practicality, sincerity and long term goal in life. Saturn
makes people humble by giving harshness in life. Saturn is the
steadiness of mind, and power to live in alone.
Let's consider one by one how these are important..
Saturn is responsibility, limitation, boundaries , truth of life: When there is a Saturn influence in relationship (Venus with Saturn), it is very restricting, practical and block love it could be lot of learning and some what of a natural sadness in the relationship. If we have Saturn influence we should try to connect and be loving try to with the other person. If not then it will become hard on the other person to be in relationship and relationship can be break.
Saturn is humbleness: When there is a Saturn influence you will see a person to be humble (Saturn in 7th house), they probably not like that from the starting.. they go through toughness in life which makes them humble.. This humbleness comes due to the helplessness that they are put in.. in someways it is a practical approach..but for a relationship to be live and healthy we need to have smiles around.
Saturn as power to live in lonely: Saturn is the planet of loneliness and it brings us loneliness ( Saturn with Moon) which when looked from a relationship perspective is not that so great..When we are in relationship we want to be around people for their affection and love. If one wants to be alone then it will take lot of effort to take up and maintain a relationships. Once we know we have Saturn influence we should try to overcome it.
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