If
we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a
situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble
:-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways
they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it..
but just do it like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards
down and be who we are without any pretension. For a marriage to work
there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are
subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
- Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
- Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
- Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
- Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
- Aggression, argument and fighting (Mars)
- Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
- Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
- Learning, teaching, higher wisdom (Jupiter)
- Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
Venus represents capacity to love, relationship, fulfillment of desire, luxury in life, compromise to get happiness, dealings with people with balance, sensual pleasure like sex
Let's consider one by one how these are important..
Venus represents capacity to love, relationship: Venus is a planet of relationship and love and what are we willing to do for it.. If Venus is not in a good dignity (Venus in Virgo) then we are not willing to be flexible in love and relationships.. we are practical in nature and we are not caring enough for people and care about ourselves only.. which is not a good thing for relationship and cause people to move away from us.
Venus represents fulfillment of desire, luxury in life: When Venus is with malefic planet (Venus with Ketu) our desires are not fulfilled and we don't get what we want which cause us to be frustrated and mistreat people around us. Which is not good for the relationships. We should be loving and forgiving so that our desires and wishes in life to be fulfilled.
Venus represents sex & sensual pleasure: Venus is a charmer imagine we are rude and don't want to indulge in sensual pleasure with our partner (Venus with Saturn). This is not helpful for a relationship. In a relationship we should be a equal partner to be happy.
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