Idealism is expecting the society to exist in a certain way that probably existed in the past or books or fairy tales. The society and people keeps on changing for getting better or worst. So Idealist is a person who is not willing to change and not able to accept the society as it exists.. A normal/average person would be who can have idealistic view and apply however much is acceptable to the society without being shunned or accept what is around them and deal with it.
Being idealistic and applying idealism makes it hard for the person and people around them as everyone wants to be part of the society and be successful as per the accepted standards. Idealistic people can make people around them feel guilty of a certain standard. People can start disliking/hating a idealistic person as who would want to be with a person who makes them feel bad or guilty or uneasy all the time.
Some would want to say because people are hypocrite.. so they don't want to deal with the society.. that is a good excuse to escape from the reality as we humans are a social animal.. For us to succeed and do better we need to deal with people around us .. for some it could be less for some it could be more.. even if we want to .. we cannot escape.
We can learn this now or will come to a realization at around 40 to 45 ( Mid life Crisis).. it's up to us to do our-self a favor and figure out a better way to engage and not turn our-self off citing Idealism as a reason.
HAPPINESS IS WHAT WE DEFINE AS HAPPINESS. IF WE DECIDE HAPPINESS AS SOMETHING THAT DOES NOT EXIT AROUND US THEN HOW CAN WE BE HAPPY? PROBABLY WE NEED AN ANSWER TO THIS QUESTION TO BE HAPPY.
We all are idealistic in the things we want or desire. We need to figure out a balance of what is around and what we want to pursue it.
HAPPINESS IS WHAT WE DEFINE AS HAPPINESS. IF WE DECIDE HAPPINESS AS SOMETHING THAT DOES NOT EXIT AROUND US THEN HOW CAN WE BE HAPPY? PROBABLY WE NEED AN ANSWER TO THIS QUESTION TO BE HAPPY.
We can choose to be a person who will bring a change, willing to do any effort and do sacrifices even if people think we are not right.
MAKE A CHOICE!!!
