Planet Venus represents a wife or girlfriend in the men chart. In the women's birth chart Jupiter represents husband and Mars represents boyfriend because women life is different than men life.
Women are more complicated emotionally as compared to men. In society the role of men is different than women. Due to this factor women may fall in love with men who are charming, masculine and handsome but these things can not fulfill the necessities of life therefore women marry men who can provide support and security in life. But for men this is opposite, they only want love from a woman therefore for them girlfriend and wife are the same. Because of this reason planet Venus rules both girlfriend and wife in a man's life.
A wife’s role in a man's life is to fulfill his dreams and support him what he wants to do in his life and make his life better and help him in fulfilling his responsibility in life. By looking at the planet Venus position in the man’s chart one can predict the nature of the wife.
We always attract what we are, not what we want. So a man will get a wife depending on the dignity of Venus in their chart. Following are the characteristics/qualities of a wife depending on the placement of Venus.
Venus in Aries: If a man has his Venus in Aries, he may attract a woman who is very independent, aggressive, stronger, very goal oriented, athletic in physics, and very competitive in nature. This woman is very impulsive in love, sexy and individualistic in nature. She is very adventurous and likes to travel. They get a wife who motivates them in their life and dominates them.
Venus in Taurus: If a man has his Venus in Taurus, he may attract a woman who is sensual, beautiful, and has a nice voice. These women can be very demanding for luxurious things, stubborn, simple, practical and like to eat good food. They get a woman who is loyal in relationship and gives security to them financially. These men pursue women who are rich.
Venus in Gemini: If a man has his Venus in Gemini, he may attract a woman who is very talkative, intellectual, creative, fun loving and lively in relationship. They get a woman who likes to write, very pleasant in talking, charming and expert in doing hand work like sewing etc. Here man gets women who are very smart and very active in household work.
Venus in Cancer: If a man has his Venus in cancer he may attract a woman who is very beautiful, emotional, sensitive, very social and can love them like a mother. They get a woman who likes to nurture, cook, and take care for them. The women are very good at taking care of kids. They get women who are very homey in nature.
Venus in Leo: If a man has his Venus in Leo, he may attract a woman who is very royal, extravagant, likes to dress well, and attention seeking. The women are very creative. She can be a model, in acting, and can be a fashion designer. The woman can be a public figure like in politics, kind of selfish and only about herself only. Here men need to be careful when they are choosing women in their life because here women want a lot of appreciation and importance in a family..
Venus in Virgo: If a man has his Venus in Virgo, he may attract a woman who is very critical in a relationship. Although the woman may be very intelligent and have good clean habits, she complains a lot about everything. And if someone criticizes in love no one will like. The men should be careful in choosing women because the women could be very unromantic in love.
Venus in Libra: If a man has his Venus in Libra, he may attract a woman who is very balanced in relationship. The woman is very romantic, generous, nice in nature, and likes to decorate the home. The woman is good in all types of relationships. She makes harmony and peace at home. The men are lucky to have Venus in Libra.
Venus in Scorpio: If a man has his Venus in Scorpio, he may attract a woman who is very unpredictable, dramaful in emotions and very secretive in relationship. The women can be very possessive, suspicious and have a very investigative mind in relationships and love. Here the men get a woman who is in mysticism of life and kind of mysterious.
Venus in Sagittarius: If a man has his Venus in Sagittarius, he may attract a woman who is very philosophical, religious, spiritual and may be of different culture or religion. They get a woman who is very interested in knowing about the different cultures of the world. She likes to mix with all kinds of people.
Venus in Capricorn: If a man has his Venus in Capricorn, he may attract a woman who is very cold, conservative and backward in thinking. The woman is very unromantic in the relationship. They get a woman who is very structured and organized in nature. Women can be very hard working, career and reputation oriented.
Venus in Aquarius: If a man has his Venus in Aquarius, he may attract a woman who is a very unconventional, social, friendly and eccentric type of woman. Women have a universal kind of thinking. These women don’t think about themselves but think about others also. They get women who think to go for the world like activists in something. Here men get a woman who is socialist.
Venus in Pisces: If a man has his Venus in Pisces, he may attract a woman who is very spiritual, devoted, selfless, and love for all kinds of types. Here Venus is exalted means Venus is full potential. The men get a woman who is very loving to everyone and spiritual nature.
By knowing Venus' position a man can know about his Venus energy and wife. Any planet sitting next to Venus or aspecting will change the behavior or qualities of the planet.