We all want to get married and want a happy life, but sometimes it does not happen. Even for love marriages most of the couple after sometime they lose interest in each other. What are some astrological reasons people have unhappy married lives?
Life is an evolutionary process. Everyone goes through some hardship so that they can mature mentally and better understand about life. We all face problems due to our weaknesses and get into trouble until we overcome that weakness and mature mentally. Expecting all the happiness is not possible. We need to understand life and life is not only about marriage. The people who have problems in married life have lessons in life so that they evolve through that difficulty in their life. They need to understand and look beyond marriages and what other things that make them happy.
Venus is the planet of the materialistic world. It is the planet of happiness for both men and women and wife in man life and we all know women are a major factor for happiness in man life. By looking at the condition of Venus in the chart, we judge what type of happiness one can get.
There are many astrological combinations which show problems in married life whether marriage is love or arranged.
Venus with Ketu can be a major factor in failure in love. Ketu is the planet of detachment. It is not a planet of this world, it belongs to the other world. Whenever Ketu comes with Venus those people have difficulty in getting materialistic happiness before marriage or after marriage. They get a partner who is not interested in Venus stuff and they are likely to get a spiritual partner. Ultimately we all have to go beyond the materialistic world at some point in life whether in this life or in other life. So these people need to understand, life is not about a materialistic world and they need to look beyond this world so that they can live a happy life. Happiness is not based on married life, it exists in other things as well.
Venus with Rahu especially in 7th house makes person overly desirous for multiple partners which create problems in married life.
Venus with Saturn in the 7th house makes people abusive which creates problems in married life. Although Venus and Saturn are friends, when Saturn sits with Venus it frustrates Venus.
Venus with Mars in the 7th house also creates problems in married life. It makes a person argumentative and win arguments at any cost. This is called manglik dosha in vedic astrology.
Venus sitting with Sun means it get combust. Sun is supreme light. It shows the right path. When Venus comes with the Sun, it purifies the Venus. Venus is the planet of materialism. Those who have Venus with the Sun make people selfish, and selfish people can not get happiness in return. If someone wants love they need to give love. Venus is the planet of mutual love. It is Moon love which is selfless not Venus love. So those who have Venus with the Sun will need to learn to give love to others, so that they get love in return.
Same thing happens if Venus comes with the Moon. Moon is a planet of emotions. When Venus comes with the Moon, then the person's mind is filled with Venus materialistic stuff and makes them selfish.
If Venus is hemmed between malefic planets like Rahu, Ketu, Saturn, and Mars makes married life miserable.
Venus comes in the 6th house also the reason for disharmony in married life. Sixth house represents unpleasant things in life. Those people who have Venus in the sixth house then their married life get disturbed due to some partner disease or conflicting nature and can be many other things.
7th house lord significator of marriage partner. If 7th house lord sitting in 6th house, 8th house and 12th house makes married life unhappy. If 7th lord sitting with any malefic planets like Rahu, Ketu, Saturn and Sun makes married life unhappy.
These are general reasons for unhappiness or disharmony in married life. Happiness is not only about physical love it varies according to Venus sign and house placement. Definition of love also varies. Some people think that only physical love is only love but it is not like that. Those people who are good souls or saints are doing good for society is also a form of love. They believe in love for all and happiness for no reason is real happiness.
