To have a happy married life it is necessary to have good compatibility between partners/ couples. Compatibility between couples can be seen from their cross check planets in their birth chart. There are many things in the birth chart to check compatibility between the couples.
Method to check compatibility between couples.
1. General compatibility: The connection between Ascendant, Moon, and Sun same sign or in opposition between Ascendant, Moon, and Sun attract two people towards each other. It is not necessary they attract sexually but they may have some common interest and liking for each other. Except Sun to Sun as it creates ego problems between couples.
2. Destiny Relationship North Node (Rahu) and South Node (Ketu) connection: The Nodes attract two people karmically. Whether one’s Nodes is associated with another Nodes or rising, Sun, and Moon sign. This connection generally brings them together to learn something from each other. It brings some pleasure or wisdom whether it lasts a long time or not.
3. Sexual compatibility or passion about each other: Mars and Venus connection brings passion and physical love towards each other initially. Mars and Mars connection brings sexual attraction. There is a common physical approach to life but it does not last long. Mars and Saturn connection brings a lot of passion in the initial stage but with time relationships become frustrating. Couples need to develop kindness and politeness to make relationships work.
4. Good communication: Mercury connection brings people towards each other on verbal and mental level. Couples may enjoy talking with each other for a long time. People in spiritual organization sometimes get married for this reason.
5. Comfort: Moon and Venus, Jupiter Venus, and Venus and Venus connection makes partners comfortable in each other's presence. There is something soothing, warm and pleasant in this relationship.
6. Security: Saturn and Jupiter connection brings security in relationship. This relationship may not have passion and sexual attraction but the relationship is long lasting. This marriage mostly happens between older and conservative couples.
7. Manglik Dosha or Kuja Dosha: This is known as manglik dosha. If either partner has planet Mars located in the 2nd, 4th, 7th, 8th, or 12th house. It shows an increased possibility of either separation or increased discord being brought upon the partner that does not have manglik or kuja dosha. The person has a kuja dosha known as manglik. There is an exception of kuja dosha. When both partners have this kuja dosha both partners still face some disharmony in marriage but marriage works.
8. Cancellation of Mars Affliction or Kuja Dosha:
If Mars in Gemini and Virgo sign in 2nd house,
If Mars in Aries or Scorpio in the 4th house,
If Mars in Capricorn or Cancer in the seventh house,
If Mars in Sagittarius or Pisces in the 8th house or
If Mars in Taurus or Libra in the 12th house.
Mars in Leo and Aquarius signs.
There is no kuja dosha in any house.
Mars is conjunct either Jupiter or the Moon no kuja dosha.
The ascendant has Jupiter or Venus no kuja dosha.
9. Venus and Jupiter also play a major role in happiness in marriage. Venus for men or Jupiter for women. If weak then they may face problems in marriage or in relationships.
10. If any of the partners have afflicted 5th (romance) and 7th ( marriage) house, then they face problems in marriage or in relationships.
11. Timing of marriage also plays a major role in sustaining marriage. If both partners don’t have dasha of marriage, then there are chances of a break in marriage.
These should be some compatibility points between partners for having a good relationship in marriage.
