If
we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a
situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble
:-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways
they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it..
but just do it like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards
down and be who we are without any pretension. For a marriage to work
there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are
subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
- Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
- Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
- Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
- Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
- Aggression, argument and fighting (Mars)
- Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
- Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
- Learning, teaching, higher wisdom (Jupiter)
- Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
Ketu (South Node) Ketu is the south Node of the moon. It is the body without head. As we
can understand if we cut head from the body the body is much larger than
head. Ketu is past life painful experience which we don’t want in this present
life. Ketu which have no head means can’t think, directionless,
confusion, don’t listen because it already have experienced in past life
(overconfident related to those things where it sitting in the birth
chart.), dissatisfied, self critical towards own things because want
perfection, isolation and separation.
Let's consider one by one how these are important..
Ketu (South Node) can cause dissatisfied : When Ketu in 7th house then Ketu wants perfection in love and lot of unreasonable and unusual expectation from partner. So it is a natural dissatisfaction, it is so natural .. it is like being dissatisfied for necessary reason. This dissatisfaction can cause in them and they loose interest in partner and create a distance in relationship. A person with a Ketu influence should question when they are not happy in a relationship to see if there is a valid reason for it.
Ketu (South Node) can cause isolation, separation: Since Ketu is transformation and want change. So when Ketu placed with Venus it want change in love and their love life them to that extend that they are no more interest in this materialistic world. The person may want to explore higher meaning of love and stay separated or isolated which is not good for a relationship of this materialistic world.. Once should try to be connected to people around if you want to enjoy life and relationship.
Ketu (South Node) can cause a person to be self critical: When Ketu in 1st house then Ketu expect perfection in personality. So if a person is not able to get the perfection they feel that they have not done enough. You should not be that critical about yourself..if we take self criticism on to the extreme side then it turns into inferiority complex ..when we have inferiority complex we don't enemies to drag our-self down or defeat ourselves..( Rahu in 7th house ) we are enough.. We need to be mindful of this as it can be very damaging in the relationship.
Ketu (South Node) can cause a person to be critical of others: Ketu wants perfection so they are not happy with what other do if it is not perfect. Since perfection is a matter of opinion. It is hard to make the ketu person happy. A Ketu person should try to be reasonable in a relationship, otherwise it will be hard for others to be with you.
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