Friday, October 23, 2015

Musculine and Feminine flow in Relationship

The terms masculine and feminine are terms used to describe active and passive energy.  Masculine known as male energy and its active and positive. Feminine energy describes as female energy and passive and negative energy. Masculine energy is outward and action oriented which we can relate with man and feminine energy is inward which we can related with the women. As we know women are defined differently than man. Women are more emotional than men and their physical needs are different than man. Women needs to take care their body more than man because women’s have different bodily function than man.  Women wants more nurturing, caring, connection and love to feel good. Men are different than women on mental level and also on physical level. Men needs are different than women. Mens are more outward and they want to connect on physical level rather than emotional level.

So masculine and feminine flow of energy is very important in relationship. This flow should be right otherwise there will be problem in mental connection in relationship. A man should be in masculine role and a women should be in feminine role to feel good in relationship. Depending on masculine and feminine energy of couple they interact with each other. In relationship woman want to experience her feminine nature and men want to come to experience their masculine nature. So women wants to be with a man who is in the initiating role and she can surrender, relax in her feminine power and men wants to be initiating role where he can feel his masculinity. If this flow is reverse then there is reversal flow of energy. If women in initiating role and behaving like men than men will not like it and if a men behave like a women be passive and not doing any action, women will not like and this could be a triggering point for couples not interested in each other with time. Basically in relationships we're putting ourselves in a situation where we want to experience our gender in a powerful way like men want to come to know their masculine nature and women come to know their feminine nature in relationship.  

In the relationship astrology how to assess an individual's chart for relationship potential. This is probably the most important and overlooked factor in any relationship assessment.  We need to assess the each individual's potential for masculinity and femininity energy in relationship by checking planets in signs. whether planets  are in mescaline or in feminine sign. .

In astrology there is 12 sign and each sign ruled by planets. There are six sign which are masculine and six are feminine. All the fire and air signs are masculine and all the water and earth signs are feminine. Feminine signs tends to be much more reserved and reactive, while the masculine are much more outgoing and active.

Leo ( Sun )    
Cancer  ( Moon )
Virgo ( Mercury )
Gemini ( Mercury )   
Libra ( Venus )
Taurus ( Venus )  
Aries  ( Mars )  
Scorpio ( Mars )  
Sagittarius ( Jupiter )   
Pisces ( Jupiter  )
Aquarius ( Saturn )
Capricorn  ( Saturn )

As we know all the planets exist within us in the form of astral bodies.  If we look at Vedic south indian chart, the planets connects with feminine and masculine energy of the chakra system of the human body and they exist in pair. e. g. Venus in Taurus is feminine and Venus in Libra is masculine. The concepts of masculine and feminine are universal. These masculine and feminine energy exist within us through chakra system and it shows up when we interact with other person.

Sun, Mars, Jupiter, Venus and Moon are relationships planets, so they should be check in couple's birth chart. 

In a man's chart will look at the capacity to initiate and to have confidence to have the capability and to stay consistent in our life because men are looking to bond and connect with their masculine in a relationship this is what gives a healthy and positive feeling in a relationship. Sun, Mars and Jupiter are masculine planets so they should be in masculine sign in man’s chart. if these planets in feminine sign than man have a crisis of masculinity by being in a situation with a woman who is having a crisis of femininity. For women these planets should be in feminine sign and if not than woman trying to initiate relationship which does not feels so good. So a Woman looking for a  man who have capability, consistency,  strengths and confidence so that she can relax in her femininity.

Venus and Moon are feminine planets and they should be in feminine sign in woman's chart and in masculine sign in man's chart. Venus is the planet love sex, fun, beauty and where we find beauty. Moon is emotions and heart’s capacity to feel joy. In a man’s chart if  Venus and Moon should be in a masculine sign it'll be more initiating and if a woman’s Venus and Moon is in feminine sign it will be more aligned with her gender integrity. If it is reverse than women in initiating role in love and men in receiving role in love which does not feels so good. Therefore masculine feminine interaction is incredibly important in relationship and it should be checked properly.

Three Dimensional Relationship Astrology

Monday, October 12, 2015

Mars in 12th House Career

In astrology as we know 12th house consider malefic house and if your 10th lord placed in 12th house is known as Dur Yoga means there can be trouble in your career,  but there are many other career possibilities.  Any sign, house, or planet that is associated with the 12th house or Pisces archetype can be expressed on a public or collective level through a profession.  It is important to understand, this does not mean that the Pisces archetype refers to a more glamorous or soulful career. Fame and glamour can surely be part of the Pisces archetype dynamic, we can also expect to find the more accessible professions. Tapping  into a collective need through one’s profession can be done quite mundanely, in fact, this is more common than the glamorous expressions. So when Mars in 12th house what kind of career you can expect.

First we need to know what is 12th house ? 12th house is the house of loss. This is the house of where anyone can see whether it is through internet or through T. V. This is the house of foreign land, hospital, jail, ashram, non charitable institute, behind the scene ( working in film industry), meditation, yoga, temples etc.

Now what is Mars ? Mars is free will and willpower for gettings things done, it is our energy to do something. Mars is vitality, discipline and it is our ability to take action. Mars is very impulsive and spontaneous, It  represents anger,  passion and energy drive within us.  etc.

Now you mix the both of them and especially if you have pisces energy in 1st  or 8th house or Mars rules your 10th house or Mars in 12th house. The 10th house demonstrates how we are going to promote and manage our career, rather than the actual choice of career.

Planets in the twelfth house are in denied naturally and in indirect expression. Your twelfth-house hidden talents are found when they are brought from unconsciousness to consciousness through activities and perfected after realizing that you must develop them completely on your own. Twelfth-house planets are expressed without self-awareness…

Mars in 12th house could be a freedom fighters individuals that are on the front field fighting  for unknown people and the most interesting dynamic about Mars in12th house is that they cannot fight for themselves but they can fight for larger.  They can be soldiers for something big for the nation the can be generals in the A warrior or freedom fighters also can be a liberators so they can be very idealistic people on the negative side.  Mars in 12th house can be negative as 12th house is the house of bed pleasure and crime too. These people can be in show business industry being as a models. With Mars in scorpio and in the 12th house has a lot of issue with power. You can have a person that can become extremely powerful, and extremely influential.

Mars in 12th house have a fear of being attacked by everybody and many people have experiences of harassment and negativity.  12th house also related with defending the enemy so you can relates to work in crime industry as a investigators of criminals. With Mars in the Twelfth House you are likely to exert your energy and initiative in secret or secluded work or some form of social or humanitarian activities in good sense.

If Mars have Pisces sign with Aries mix: Any artistically oriented profession, activism, defense, army, crime, criminology, weapons industry, fire fighting, sports, sales, sex industry, professions portraying sex symbols (fashion modeling, show business).

If Mars have Pisces sign with scorpio mix: Therapy (psychology and related alternative modalities), defense (crime, criminology, weapons, security), sex industry, banking, mortgages, death industry, funeral, and coroner’s work etc.

Twelfth House Astrology
Sun in 12th House Career
Moon in 12th House Career
Mercury in 12th House Career
Saturn in 12th House Career
Venus in 12th House Career
Jupiter in 12th House Career

Friday, October 9, 2015

Sun influence in Divorce, Marriage, Relationship Astrology

If we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble :-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it.. but just do it  like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards down and be who we are without any pretension.  For a marriage to work there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
  1. Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
  2. Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
  3. Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
  4. Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
  5. Aggression, argument and fighting  (Mars)
  6. Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
  7. Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
  8. Learning, teaching, higher wisdom  (Jupiter)
  9. Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
For this conversation we will consider Sun as a planet in relationship, its influences and how it can get us near a divorce if we don't understand it the subconscious influences and change our habits and approach in relationship. 

Since Sun is both planet of creativity they have good sense to create good art. Sun debilitation can makes a person weak in dealing in relationship, can have ego. Relationship makes their intelligence, independent and creative nature vulnerable and they compromise which is hard for them. They must learn to balance their creative needs with those of partner in order for the soul to growth.

Let's consider one by one how these are important..

A badly placed Sun can sometime make a person weak in relationship :  When Sun is not placed in a good house a person can have low self esteem in dealing with relationships. When we feel weak we cannot express ourselves or take the benefit of the relationship. The relationship may feel harder than it is due to our low self esteem and inability of dealing with it. We should always be confidant and try to balance and be expressive in a positive way for better relationship.

A bad dignity Sun can sometime make a person very egoist : High dignity planets are always adjusting and conscious of the surrounding. So most of the times things work out for them. It is when they are in tough dignities that they react to ego, anger and being irritated. Like wise when we keep ego in relationships we have tough time maintaining them. We should try to keep the ego out, but not let anyone take advantage of us.  There is a real need to have a balanced approach in relationships as they are long terms.

Sun is weak : When a person is too much interested in relationship then person can not focused in own relationship. the person is interested in more than one partner and this can be a cause for divorced.  I think we need to loyal and faithful in relationship and recognize what our partner needs,  if we ignore it we will only create a distance between partners. 

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Thursday, October 1, 2015

Remedy Moon with Ketu (South Node) in Astrology

In astrology Moon is mind, imagination, emotional response, peace at heart and opening to receive something. Moon is the very gentle planet, sensitive and caring planet. It is selfless love of mother.

Ketu, or the south node of the Moon, is Rahu’s opposite node and is supposed to be almost same but work in opposite way, and they are both considered to be malefic. Ketu is the point in our subconscious mind where our past life memories stored. Ketu is karmic points in the horoscopes that indicating the main areas of life where a person need to do work so that they can move forward in life. When ketu join any planet in the chart it becomes very important in one's life. Ketu is the past life karma’s knot of the person where the person need to understand and resolve issues. ketu is our inner parents which wants perfection by scrutinized or focusing on things. Generally its placement in the chart show where need to work to overcome our mind criticism. Keu is chaos in life, attenuator of the things, focusing on what we desire, illusion and it is our past. Ketu’s function is to cause inner turmoil so that the soul will seek the true essence of the life. Ketu bring Peace and enlightenment after suffering in life. When the Moon and Ketu are in conjunction or together in the birth chart. Ketu attenuate the quality of the Moon. Ketu just suckes the emotional nature of the Moon. Moon is the feminine planet, caring, affectionate and nourishing planet. Ketu diminish all these quality of the Moon.

Ketu is the spiritual world. It is the headless serpent, implying the perception and wisdom that is gut level knowing and that can give psychic abilities for past when it conjunct with moon.. But Ketu can give a feeling of helplessness, self-doubt, and lack of confidence. On the other hand these people are very mature about their emotions, they know how to control their emotions. but they control their so much that it can create some emotional problem, emotions should be released not to hold. These people are very sensitive and not focused. Therefore have trouble some path in life. These people just internalise their feelings and non reactive emotionally. Ketu is introvert, it close to the person outside worldly emotional drama, they don’t respond in a emotional way. Since Moon is mother in astrology the native relationship with mother can be of bit distant and stressful or mother life can be stressful. Ketu seems to take away from, diminish, or make invisible and that is why it’s more difficult to observe. Ultimately Ketu is supposed to relate to attaining enlightenment and saying no to worldly attachments. Ketu makes the native either want to go unnoticed, or circumstances make it so that that will be the case.

When Ketu and the Moon are in conjunction, the mind becomes isolated and feel separated from emotions of self and others. The person not able to understand why they are not feels happy with mother or not themselfs. Ketu create confusion for a person, the mind is full of unnecessary turmoil because of lack of understanding. The person not able to see the direction and directionless. The person is becomes very critical about their and others emotions. This makes them cranky. Since Ketu's job is to separate the person from the material plane, usually the Moon and Ketu dasha allows the person to find his or her true self. Since the Moon represents the mother, the mother is also isolated and detached with her emotions towards the native. The mother might also have been separated at birth for some reason.

As Ketu works on the psychic level these people have some psychic influence on their mind. They may have attract some negative energies and may experience some ghostly activities during their Ketu mahadasha depending on the placement of Ketu and Moon in certain houses. If they get chances to see a ghost generally they saw headless ghost. Generally ghost effect more to those people who develop some kind of addictions like alcoholism or drugs, so therefore those people who have this conjunction need to be more careful not to use all these addictions. If a mother know that her kid have this type conjunction she need to be more careful and try to keep the child in good environment and teach not to hold their emotions rather they should know how to release their emotions and try to live in balance.

Depending on which sign this conjunction occur result can vary. If Moon is weak and conjunction with Ketu it can give more problems to the native. It can create fear, anxiety, and depression. Ketu is the past life experience, and when the Ketu conjunct with Moon, there is always an emotional need to surrender and resolve the issue related with moon. The native thought process can be different from other people.Till their mid forties these people experienced many painful emotions, as they mature they learn how to release their emotions and live in balance.

Remedy of Moon with Ketu:

1. Moon is also represent the enjoyment of the present movement. Ketu works on the inner spiritual world. Ketu with moon will have a spiritualism effect on it, directing the planetary energy to look within its essence. These people have hard time in focusing on something. They always wondering in past. Therefore these people can have restless mind, so these people need to learn to meditations so that they can stabilize their thought and learn to be happy in the present movement.

2. These people learn to enjoy nature and try to connect with the nature. Try to purify the body by grounding, water therapy and enjoying their times with kids.

3. Developing good habits of eating and reducing negative thoughts also help them Ketu’s negative effect. Since Ketu sitting with Moon and Moon is mother in astrology the person need to respect their mother and try to talk respectfully, and generally native need to talk politely with everyone.

4. If this conjunction in 8th house, Keep good relations with in laws.

5. Wearing cold metals like silver keep mind cool. The native needs to ear silver chain or any silver ornament.

6. Cat's eye is the stone of Ketu. Leysunia is cold in nature so one should wear Lehsunia ring in middle finger to keep mind calm and cool. Ring should made in cold metal like silver but it should be checked by an astrologer

7. Lord Ganesha is the deity of Ketu. Lord Ganesh protect us and destroy our obstruction, fear, anger and darkness of life. By worshiping lord ganesha we can overcome obstruction in life. Once obstruction and fear is destroyed we become automatically attain peace in our heart.

8. Ketu is the dark point so pouring milk on shivling on Saturday on dark night calm down the Ketu.

Ketu (South node) Rahu (North Node) Life Learning in Astrology
Soul Purpose in Life (Rahu and Ketu) in Astrology
Rahu and Ketu nodes of Moon in Astrology
Effect of Transit of Rahu on Planets Astrology
Effect of Transit of Ketu on Planets Astrology
Transit of Rahu (North Node) and Ketu (South Node) in Houses
Venus with Rahu (conjunction) in Astrology