Tuesday, February 21, 2017

Jupiter influence in Divorce, Marriage, Relationship Astrology

If we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble :-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it.. but just do it  like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards down and be who we are without any pretension.  For a marriage to work there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
  1. Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
  2. Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
  3. Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
  4. Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
  5. Aggression, argument and fighting  (Mars)
  6. Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
  7. Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
  8. Learning, teaching, higher wisdom  (Jupiter)
  9. Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
For this conversation we will consider Jupiter as a planet in relationship, its influences and how it can get us near a divorce if we don't understand it the subconscious influences and change our habits and approach in relationship. 


In Vedic Astrology 9th house is the dharma house which is ruled by Jupiter. D-9 harmonic chart which is derived from 9th house is the the chart of marriage. So Marriage s not a physical relation is also spiritual/dharmic path with your spouse. Therefor in Hindu culture wife is called as Dharm patni ( hindi word).  Therefore Jupiter play a very big role in marriage to evolve spiritually for both the partners. However if one partner not understand this part then Jupiter could create problem in marriage. 

Jupiter is  hope,  wisdom, teaching, expansion of thing, belief, knowledge , morality wisdom, compassion, spirituality and connection with the universe.


Let's consider one by one how these are important..

Jupiter can cause us to loose hope : When Jupiter is not is a good dignity we just lack hope.. Hope is a core ingredient of life.. Hope is what makes us look ahead in the day, relationship and life. If we don't have hope .. it is difficult to live with a hopeless person. There are many phases of life where we need to be hopeful and if we are not hopeful then there can be problem in a relationship

Jupiter can cause us to question wisdom & teaching : If one partner is interested in learning in higher wisdom and other is not then this probably the worst thing a person can do is to question everything in relationship. It happens a lot in marriage where one person is into spirituality and all and other is not, and if one partner is giving lecture or teaching unnecessary  then other partner get irritated and this could be problematic in relationship. 

Jupiter can cause us to be un-compassionate: When Jupiter is not in a good dignity then a person can be very materialistic and un-compassionate.. which is not a good thing . When we are living together we should be compassionate with out it , it is hard to carry relationships. Even if we are not compassionate we should try to be compassionate to carry the relationships.


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Monday, February 20, 2017

Reason Late Marriage in Astrology



Marriage is the part of life which is necessary for normal life living. But nowadays due to different lifestyles and many reasons like mixing of various cultures, moral values, changes in human outlook and attitudes, marriages also have changed. There are many astrological planetary combinations which show late marriage in someone's life.


In astrology there are mainly two planets which are the significator of marriage. They are Venus and Jupiter. If these two planets are not in good dignity marriage could be delayed. Also other planets also play an important role in marriage.


Role of Venus in marriage: Venus is the planet of love and relationship.  If Venus  conjunct with malefics planets like Saturn, Sun, Ketu or Saturn aspects Venus, then they damage the energy of Venus and could delay marriage. Venus combust, debilitated and retrograde makes people make difficult decisions which causes delay in marriage. The Sun is the enemy of Venus if Venus in the sign of Leo then it can delay in marriage. If Venus hemmed between malefic planets like the Sun and Saturn, then it can delay marriage, because they have malefic influence on Venus.


Role of Jupiter in marriage: Jupiter is the planet of many important things in life. It rules many things in life like marriage, children, luck, wisdom and higher knowledge. If Jupiter is debilitated, retrograde or combust, then there is delay in marriage and creates disharmony in married life. 

Planets in the 7th House: 7th house is the main house for married life. Depending on what planet rules the 7th house and what planets are sitting and aspect 7th house shows the result of married life. 

Role of Saturn in the 7th house: Saturn is the planet of maturity, responsibility, and tough  lessons in life. It teaches lessons where it is sitting and what it rules or aspects in the birth chart.  So one should wait till 1st Saturn returns. After 1st Saturn returns the native gets responsible and mature and ready to make the right decision.  7th house lord sitting with Saturn, Sun and Ketu can delay in marriage. Saturn sitting in or aspect 7th house delay in marriage. Even if Saturn is sitting with Jupiter or Venus. For Cancer and Leo ascendant Saturn rules the 7th house. They should marry late  otherwise they might have separated. 

Role of Sun in marriage: Sun sitting in 7th or aspect 7th house delay in marriage. It can also give ego problems in relationships.

Role of Mars in marriage: Mars is the planet of fighting. If Mars is sitting in 7th house or aspect 7th house, then they should marry late otherwise it creates problems in married life. Mars energy gets matured at age 28. The person should get married after 28.

Role of Rahu in marriage: Rahu is obsessive, compulsive planet. It gives unconventional marriage if it sits in the 7th house. It makes the person attracted intensely and makes the person obsessive and the person may marry early. But Rahu is also an illusion; it also gets native separated after the illusion gets over. People who have Rahu in the 7th house should think thoroughly before getting married. 

Role of Ketu in marriage: Ketu is the planet of detached and disinterested in materialistic world. If Ketu is placed in the 7th house then the person is not interested in marriage unless Jupiter or Venus aspects the Ketu.

7th house lord sitting with Saturn, Sun and Ketu can delay in marriage.

Retrograde, combust and debilitated planets in 7th house could delay the marriage.


The 2nd and 4th  house are considered family houses. Any malefic planet like Saturn, Ketu and Moon with Ketu sitting in the 2nd and 4th house could delay marriage. 


People think getting married late is not a good thing but actually people should take this in a positive way. Because these planetary energies exist within us and try to teach something which is necessary for married life. If these combinations are in someone’s birth chart the person need to understand these energies, so that they can save their married life.


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Sunday, February 19, 2017

The Eighth (8th) House in Astrology



House of Regeneration, Death, Sex, Transformation, lottery.


The 8th house is known as a very vulnerable house in astrology. The 8th house is the house of fears, anxiety and insecurity in life. We fear losing whom we love most. It creates a certain kind of insecurity by fear that someone can do crime also. This is the house of in-laws and married life. What type of sex life you will get seen from the 8th house. This house is known for sudden up and down events in life like divorce, separation from a partner or death of someone. You don't know what you will get after marriage. Life is very unpredictable after marriage. The 8th house also represents dowry. Those women who have debilitated Jupiter with Rahu in 8th house need to be careful in marriage matters. It is the house of hidden secret of life, sexual abuse from someone. If someone has malefic planets in 8th house they need to be careful in life in general because they can get into painful situations. This is the house of crisis, sudden shocks , up and down in life. This is the house of transformation and regeneration, after suffering we transform and change (regeneration of mentality). This house also represents inheritances, money earned by other people and spouse resources, joint assets of business or with spouse. Eighth house also presents dark places, underground things e. g. Gems are found underground, mines, ground stores, oil resources, ghosts and graveyards.

Eighth house is the house of occult science, astrology, secrets, hidden, lottery, surgery, healing, inheritance, alimony, taxes, insurance, support from another and research in any field. This house is associated with the secret things in life. Dark psychology, psychological problems are seen from the 8th house. Desire to control others, crime, bad deeds, dirty tricks, revenge, jealousy, addiction of drugs, and mode of death are seen from 8th house.

Saturn is the karaka or significator of the eighth house because Saturn shows loss and grief in life. Every house has an evolutionary process of life. Life is the evolution of the soul. We all are evolving and the eighth house teaches us or evolves us to strengthen our emotions and deal with the crisis in life. 8th shows where we seek freedom through another person and also freedom from the influence of other people in general. The hidden, shocking, scandalous, deceptive and unexpected events in life. The pain or fear in life of losing someone teaches us to strengthen our emotions. This is the house of liberation (moksha) from the pain of emotions related to others. This is the house of maturity of mind. Until we do not overcome our fear and crisis of life we cannot grow further in life. We must face 8th house issues with dignity and move forward to the higher learning of life (9th House).

People who have planets in 8th house make them interested in mystic subjects like, tarot cards, numerologist, psychologist, researcher, shamans, and could be good astrologers. These people suffer in their life therefore they can understand other’s pain easily. They can be good healers, in sex or in anything. These people are often interested in spiritual life also because they suffer so much in life therefore they are inclined towards spirituality. They want to know what is the truth of life.

The effects of planets in the eighth house:


Sun in 8th house: Those people who have Sun in the eighth house show interest in occult knowledge, and understanding the psychology of others in general. These people are often interested in exploring life’s deeper mysteries. The relationship with the father is a little bit fearful and not open.

Moon in 8th house: Those people who have Moon in the eighth house show a lot of psychological fears in their mind. Sudden and unexpected losses are often felt in the native life and they suffer mentally. The relationship with the mother is turbulent emotionally or not good. These people are interested in occult science and spirituality.

Mars in 8th house: Those people who have Mars in the eighth house show some disturbance in life, if it is not in their own sign (Scorpio). The person is very passionate and sexual but they must be very careful with this placement and learn to slow down. These people invest their energy into strengthening their emotional weakness in life.

Mercury in 8th house: Those people who have Mercury in the eighth house show deep thinking and like to investigate. If Mercury has its own sign in the 8th house the native is very flexible in nature and supports the transformation of the eighth house. If Mercury in Scorpio signs in 8th house the native communication is very confusing and not clear. They need to think properly then speak to reduce any confusion with others in general.

Jupiter in 8th house: Those people who have Jupiter in the eighth house show chances of financial gain through other people's money is possible e. g. Marriage, partnerships or inheritances. The person could also win the lottery if Jupiter is exalted. A person has interest in learning hidden things and can be a great teacher in occult science.

Venus in 8th house:
Those people who have Venus in the eighth house show a trans-formative relationship with their spouse. They want a high level of trust and honesty from their partner. These people are prone to jealousy in relationships. When Venus in Pisces in 8th house these people are very loving and service oriented or can be a sexual healer.

Saturn in 8th house: Those people who have Saturn in the eighth house show fear around stability of financial, emotional and sexual security. These people sometimes find themselves struggling with financial hardship, and the frustrating demands of unresponsive partners. Generally these people have difficulty in sexual arousal. They need to open with partners or they need to learn to let go of painful relationships.

Rahu in 8th house: Those people who have Rahu in the eighth house show a very experimental nature. It can lead to some bad consequences in life. The native need to be careful when they are in stress after facing some unpleasant situation in life e.g. Divorced or losing someone. However these people are interested in the hidden side of life.

Ketu in 8th house: Those people who have Ketu in the eighth house show a stable, material existence mind set. These people have very financial trouble in their childhood or past. Therefore they are more interested in secure financial stability in life.