Friday, February 13, 2015

Saturn Aspects in Astrology


In Vedic Astrology, every planet aspects all of the planets in the same house and in the opposite house. However, in addition to these aspects, Saturn have special aspects, Saturn also aspects the 3rd and 10th houses forward.

As we know Saturn is the planet of restriction, blockage, problem, delay, and determination. So Saturn aspects to other planets brings seriousness and determination but also fear, worry and anxiety. Saturn is taskmaster and shows harsh reality of your past life karma. No one can escape from eye of Saturn, be ready for that.

Lets check it out effects of Saturn aspect on each planets.

Saturn Aspects Ascendant: Ascendant or 1st house is the your personality or self.  When Saturn aspecting the Ascendant, a person is likely to be a bit more nervous and sensitive, vulnerable, self-critical or self-doubting, cautious, and serious nature.

Saturn Aspects Sun: Sun is the planet of ego and self esteem. These two planets are just opposite in nature.  This is not so good aspect for the self esteem for the person. As saturn is the planet of humiliation. It makes person humble by giving humiliation. Saturn just crushes the ego of the person and make better person in long run. However sometimes this aspects found in very reputed people. Sun is karaka of father, So the person have tough relationship with father.  

Saturn Aspects Moon: Moon is the planet of mind and emotions. When Saturn aspects the Moon, it  shows a controlled feelings and the external environment by building walls of protection, resulting in fatigue, depression and loneliness. The person have hard time in to be happy and very serious approach towards public.  Moon is the karaka of mother, So the person have tough relationship with mother.  

Saturn Aspects Mars: Mars is Impulsive, impatient and aggressive. Here again these two planets opposite in nature, interact with each other. In this aspects Mars get benefit but Saturn not. Here Saturn infuse it quality to Mars and make him productive. This the reason Mars exalted in the sign of Saturn. The person have patience and have control in anger and impulsive behaviour.  However this aspects can give blast.

Saturn Aspects Mercury: Mercury is the planet of communication and rational thinking.  Saturn aspect to Mercury hampered communication and blocked intelligence of the person. Mostly these people  are quiet and don’t like to speak much. Depending on closeness of the aspects can give speech problem and understanding in mathematics. However sometimes this aspects can give good focus on studies.

Saturn Aspects Jupiter: Jupiter is the planet of expansion and Saturn is the planet of constriction. Jupiter is hope, optimism and higher wisdom. Saturn is the planet of harsh realities and realistic. Saturn just convert person hope and higher wisdom into reality. the person is realistic related with his hopes and wishes and willing to work hard for it. However sometimes this aspects aspects give atheism and dogmatic beliefs.

Saturn Aspects Venus: Venus is the planet of  love, relationship, happiness, and karaka of wife. Saturn aspects on Venus shows problem in relationship. Lot of effort is required in making relationship work. The person may marry an older partner, and it might happen late in life. This also shows that relationship is very boring but committed. Relationship is mature and long lasting.. The relationship may lack love and warmth and there is lot of fear and anxiety in relationship. Saturn is the cold planet and Venus is creativity, so the person may have talent in snow or ice creativity.

This is the general interpretation of Saturn Aspects to the planet. The Aspects differ according to the Sign and House placement. 

The People Who Wants to talk less are the people end up talking most :-)

As we know every person have almost a different perspective so what are the chances of a person able to understand clearly that we are trying to say. So it will end up being a bit of back and forth before the other person understands our point of view.

For the people who want to  talk less are in most case lacks communication skills.. let's see .. for discussing something ... we need to know youtube Video in the bottom (How to speak that people want to listen)


  1. What are we trying to discuss should be clearly expressed.
  2. Use the same vocabulary/words. It is very important for us to use words which are understood by the listener.. we cannot talk french to a person who does not understand french. 
  3. Why is our point of view.. with out this explanation it may be hard for the other person to understand what we are trying to explain.

There is no short cut to proper communication.. lot of individuals will say the following..

1) They could have said the thing in a certain way.
2) They don't know how to talk.
3) They talk too much and nothing comes out of it.

So the whole conversation ends up being how others could have talked less to express their thought so that we have to talk less..

Either we improve our communication and way of how we express ourselves or we will end up talking more and since we don't want to talk more we will be irritated and not feel happy..

If we improve our communication and are able to express our thoughts in a clear way we will be able to achieve our goal of talking less and be happy, but a minimum communication needs to happen otherwise it will end-up being a longer talk than we  want to have.

If you cannot communicate/express and talk less then there is a complex in yourself that is letting you not to communicate be careful for that.. as that communication is the base for any civilization.. If we don't want to be part of one and live alone then I guess there is no need to improve, else we need to for peace and happiness.

IF YOU WANT TO TALK LESS, IMPROVE YOUR COMMUNICATION,MAKE IT MEANINGFUL AND BE GOOD AT IT

Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Love, Is it making our Children Stronger and Smarter?


I have 2 kids and they are growing up fast. I was trying to look at how we interact while learning and dealing with situation in life. I love my kids and probably all parents do (may be everyone has a different way to express love )

Let's deal with following scenarios for our children and see how it works out.. In bottom of the article there are 3 videos from youtube.. how to praise kids, Developing a growth Mindset and How to let altruism be your guide



“Those who educate children well are more to be honored than they who produce them; for these only gave them life, those the art of living well.”  Aristotle

1) Child struggling in studies.
As a parent I love my child and don't want my child to struggle , but not cause them pain as well. Will my child be better off by staying in their comfort zone or me pushing a bit hard to learn and be better. If i don't do that .. they will not perform good in school and may have lack of self worth as they don't know as much as others around them.. so is it wise for me to push a little hard on my kids or let them figure out how to deal with it?

2) Dealing with difficult situations
I think as we grow up we have to deal with situations which are out of our comfort zone. Look around and see how many people around us including ourselves are good at dealing with things that are unexpected and beyond our comfort zone. I think this is the best skill or learning we can give it to our children. Teaching this will be hard as we are always asking them to deal with situations which are out of their comfort zone.  They may not like it .. but they will thank us for teaching them this skill.. I wish if I had learned this lot earlier in life.   We can give comfort to our child when they are struggling or having a difficulty  .. by avoiding the situation  or we can help them understand and make them stronger to deal with the situation which could make things easier in life for them at later stage in life.

3) Dealing with other people
all said and done we have to deal with other people to be happy and successful in life, if we don't know how to deal with other people it will be hard to be happy with family, spouse and workplace. I think this is a important skill to have and we need to teach our kids how to .. other wise they will have difficulty dealing around.

4) Being competitive
I think this is a tough one.. we want our kids to be able to work with other people and if we look a it .. if we are not competitive or watchful of our interest others will take advantage of ... so in some ways we need to teach our kids to be able to work with others and still be able to watch our interest. I think this one is tough as it is contradictory of cooperation, but it is an important one .. I am still learning :-)

talk about learning .. we as adults have a hard time learning thing.. it will be probably harder for the kids to lean how to deal with the situation in hand.We need to use the power of love to make our kids  brave and stronger to be able to do well and be happy in life. 

They trust us, if we don't teach them or make them brave to deal with a situation we are in some ways betraying our child trust  as they don't know what is right for them when they are young.

Is love for our children making them stronger and smarter or we are making them soft/ weaker. What ever we are doing ...will they be stronger in life when we are not around them or will they struggle without our presence/ guidance.

DON'T GIVE-UP ON YOUR KIDS THEY ONLY HAVE YOU
Read the following Articles , it will give you insight into your child and probably ideas on how to help them grow.

Child Astrology