Wednesday, April 27, 2016

Winning an Argument (Self Analysis)

If it takes less effort to convince that it(something) does not matter to you than to convince other person that you have is a valid point. Then it is for the other person to appreciate or listen to you .. If they don't want it .. It is their desire/wish not ours to make them listen .. Period .. 

Why are we forcing ourselves to even want to have a conversation when other person doesn't want to. Do something that make you a better person and channelize your energies in a positive way than to waste your time dealing with people who don't want to listen or are not open  or doesn't want to grow.

I have used this as a guide for myself in the situation where I have a point of view/opinion which could be helpful, but when the other person is not open .. then it is not worth an effort to have the conversation. It could end up being like that I am trying to enforce my opinion on others.. (In a family we have the responsibility/duty to guide we have to do the best we know)

Avoid these conflicts, be open to other people's opinions and views as it makes you a better person for anyone with whom you interact.  You may have seen the most successful people listen and observe that's how they lead and come-up with creative ideas.

Do you really want to win a argument?

I think by the time we are 35 to 40+ we realize that people have their own way of doing things weather it is right or wrong. They will do what they want to do. We need to focus on us and then move on with life.
Becoming a Super Learner “The more you know, the more you know you don't know.” Aristotle

Steve Jobs told students: ‘Stay hungry. Stay foolish.’ 


Saturday, April 23, 2016

Engaging in the world with Intellect/Intelligence/Awareness

Have you ever been in a situation where your conversation ended up in a conflict/anger or argument?
there could be many reasons..
  1. You may not  have complete knowledge of the subject.
  2. you may not have evaluated that the person is right to have the conversation.

In any case it is our assessment which has gaps or is flawed. We need to work on our analytical skills to avoid a situation.

Intellect is a complicated thing.. Is the other person open to the conversation or the ideas and does not have a intellect to hear the other person out and have a debate or a conversation.. then why are we even having the conversation. We should back out and find a person who is worthy and willing to grow with the knowledge and connect the dots.

Most of the conflicts around us are caused due to...
  1. Lack of awareness
  2. Rigidity to change
  3. Having preconceived opinions/notions.
  4. Lack of being open to the world/information
The conflict does not even arise among people who are open for conversations and willing to understand other persons point of view. Irrigation/anger is not letting us solve the problems. We are trying to get clarity and predictability. Every one has a point of view about how to deal with a situation, but then there is always a reason why we  don't want to go the other way. A reason is not good enough when we cannot describe or articulate it and express our dilemma.

Sometime we thing that a solution has to be perfect or it cannot have unknowns. Can we predict how we will act the next adverse event.. it is hard to .. so a solution is as good as what we know at the moment and there could be some unknowns that needs to be dealt with as they come forward.

World and People around us: We may think what we know is the truth/whole, but most of the time there is always something that we are not aware of. So navigating our way through it is the best option, as we are willing to listen and answer.. in the process we learn and appear humble. It is humane not to appreciate arrogance.

Human Mind decides to dislike then there is no turning back unless:  It is just that we as humans take time to make a belief or understand something. Once done it is hard for us to change the perspective about something. Imagine some one has done that what is the probability of they accepting your point of view. One needs to be able to articulate information is a very structured and sequential manner for other to be able to appreciate your perspective. We have to be able to articulate our thoughts and information is a expressive and positive way.

Forcing routine/structure around our life: Surprise and sudden events  can cause us unease. We should try to be predictable is what ever means possible. Since we are predictable we don't have to get surprised or plan at the last moment , which can cause uncertainty in the subsequent events and eventually in life as a whole.


One-on-One with Yourself & Entrepreneur
Materialism/Bhikshu to Spiritualism , Knowing yourself

Saturday, February 27, 2016

Solar Eclipse March 2016



March 08 2016 Solar Eclipse

This March on 8th there is total solar eclipse in the sign of Aquarius with Mercury and Venus.  So you see how many things might be gone to change. Any eclipse puts real spotlight where you need and can make adjustments and to move forwards so the energy of where and what it's affecting in your chart can run more smoothly.. A Solar Eclipse may take 3 to 6 months within to be fully realized so this is why there could be changing events in the future. A Solar Eclipse in Aquarius sign is going to change something about society because Aquarius sign represents society. This solar eclipse highlights about the information, love and respect issues with people.  Eclipse is the source of  confusion and a useful message to you in an area where it falls in your  birth chart and it affects lasts almost 3 or 6 months in that area of life. . It's also the solar collapse it's whenever whatever is being awakened is then part of the trend for the  years.


March 08 2016 Solar Eclipse For Each Ascendant

Aries Ascendant: This solar eclipse fall in your 11th house. This is puts the focus on the  groups and organizations, so there could be some disturbance in your social circle and with a group of people working in a team effort. this going to be tough time for networking going to business events making new connections and friends could be very difficult in attaining your goals financially.

Taurus Ascendant: This solar eclipse fall in your 10th house. This is puts the focus on the   new directions and adjustments necessary to moving this new path in your tenth house of career matters.  There could be change in your career or in professional life.  you puts a year of your profession starting a new business going on with the tenth house. It could be more visibility and for some of you could be opening up new direction in life. .

Gemini Ascendant: This solar eclipse fall in your 9th house. This is puts the focus on your ninth house. The night houses is of  higher education and hope. There will be a change in your belief system. You might be no longer believe what you believe before. You need to careful with your teachers and gurus because they might create some trouble for you. Take precaution in long distance travelling.

Cancer Ascendant: This solar eclipse fall in your 8th house. This is puts the focus on your eighth house which out which is the house of financial obligations joint ventures, your partners monies, and  credit taxes insurance will be highlighted. this eclipse create some confusion around  in all these matters and business partnership. It may bring your focus your partner's    physical, emotional needs and money.

Leo Ascendant: This solar eclipse fall in your 7th house. This is puts the focus on partnerships, marriage, customers, contracts and either pulling this bringing all new energy to start these connections or realizing you're going to have to make adjustments to really work on these partnerships or marriage issues. Seventh house of partnerships the focus could be on relationship. This eclipse can cut off relationships that are unhealthy or not positive

Virgo Ascendant: This solar eclipse fall in your 6th house. This is puts the focus on your sixth house. The solar close is highlighting your job, might be starting your own business, starting to hire employee and employer. It certainly could create some health issues. So the focus is on also on your health and so basically this is putting a spotlight on you need to eat better and exercise regularly.

Libra Ascendant: This solar eclipse fall in your 5th house. This is puts the focus on your fifth house of creative expression, children, entertainment, investments and romance. You may face some issues with all these things. There could be some chances that you may neglect your child or you might have some issues with your lovers. There could be some chance that your past love come back and creating some problem in your current life.

Scorpio Ascendant: This solar eclipse fall in your 4th house. This is puts the focus on your on fourth house matters of feeling, mother, home family real estate. The solar eclipse on fourth house might indicate you to explore what you want to be peaceful and explore  ancestral roots or even really going back to your inner level of conscious. There could be some problems arise with your mother and you may feel disturbed.

Sagittarius Ascendant: This solar eclipse fall in your 3rd house. This is puts the focus on the third house. The third house is the house of communications, learning, writing and siblings. So there might even be with all this upsets change going with siblings. Maybe this could also be where you get more involved with learning, communicating, and  writing to break out of your own box and redefine yourself and move into a whole new chapter of your life.

Capricorn Ascendant: This solar eclipse fall in your 2nd house. This is puts the focus in your second house of income and family. So for the next years there is a real focus on your cash flow, how to make more money or dealing with with budget and monies. So  it's the solar eclipse to find energy to break through new ways of making money for you. During this time we might find some hardships with finances.

Aquarius Ascendant: This solar eclipse fall in your 1st house. This is puts the focus on your personality and health. you may feel change in in your personality after this solar eclipse and your health could be affected. So putting a focus on new beginnings, leadership, confidence and could also put a focus on your personalty. You may attract many people towards you because this Solar Eclipse is with Venus and giving grace and charm to your personalty.  

Pisces Ascendant: This solar eclipse fall in your 12th house. This is puts the focus on the
your twelfth house. 12th house is the house of subconscious and self undoing things.  It's time to let go of some of your fears that you are not doing enough, to develop more compassion and understanding of others, and to be humble. It's time to let go of some of your obsessions with rules, regulations, and doing things perfectly.

Any planets in Aquarius Sign  in your birth chart will be affected by this solar eclipse. and according to the sign placement in your birth chart it will affect your life.