Monday, August 2, 2021

Getting Answers for A Curious Mind

 

 

Human mind is curious and it has questions about any and everything.  You probably have a tone of it as well.


  • How can I be happy?

  • Why did it happen?

  • How is this possible?

  • Why do people think like that?

  • Why can't people understand me?

  • Why was I born?

  • What is the purpose of my life?

  • What is my duty?


Till we have questions our mind stays curious, wonders and tries to find answers. How do we settle this curiosity? We need to be open and accept reality and find answers by learning and educating ourselves.  Some people may help you in getting your answers , for some the questions you have may not even be a question so obviously they cannot understand and help. Since it is your curiosity it becomes your quest to find answers. Spiritualism deals with a lot of these questions as spiritualism is a way of life and yogis and our elders have given us a framework. In fact now we have an issue with the interpretations of it as these are very old guidelines and the world has changed. The curious mind can  be calmed by..


  1. Accept it as it is and don't question. (What is the cost of not knowing?)

  2. Try to be a learner and find answer


We need to be a good listener and open to different perspectives, Not react but respond with our actions. Responding engages us in life, helps in self analysis and finds what didn't work the way we expected. It becomes a feedback loop to learn more about the changes in the society and align ourselves.  What was considered a norm 10 years ago is forgotten today and we have new norms. We have to be conscious and aware which keeps us informed and makes us aware.


from my personal experience.. I was trying to learn statistics by trying to relate to what I knew.. It was very hard. Then I accepted it as a new subject with an open mind and was able to learn it a lot faster than I could have thought. So sometimes the experience helps us in learning and sometimes they slow us down. As humans we should be able to make a call about what to take up with an open mind.


If we are stuck in one place, we will keep on seeing the same problems and issues again and again.



 I just did math. By looking at it, we have only around 7 hours (2659 hours in a year) on an average per day to learn and be better. Rest of the time is used for sustaining our existence (8 hours for sleeping, 8 hours for work, 3 hours of routine work). How many hours do we spend on a regular basis on self improvement and learning?


When we are a constant learner it becomes natural to us and it is not even an effort, but most of us get into I know more and stop being open and curious, the moment we do that we go stale and uncomfortable and start losing touch with the people around us .. which makes us question, curious and at some point in time uncomfortable to as to we don't fit any more. 


Astrology can be a good start for a curious mind as it relates to almost every aspect of  life and how we perceive and interact with it. To be at peace we need to get the answers and simplify our life.














Sunday, July 25, 2021

Venus and Mars together (Conjunction) in Astrology



Mars and Venus are the two main planets of relationship. Mars is the planet of individuality and Venus is the planet of love and others. When these two planet are together/conjunct then there is a high possibility of problem in relationship

Mars represents will power, vitality, and our ability to take action. Mars is very impulsive and spontaneous. Mars represents the sexual energy, physical side of love, passion and energy


Venus is our capacity to compromise in love, relationship. Venus also presents pleasure, happiness, creativity and arts.


When Venus and Mars conjunct together it always makes a person very intense in sensuality, sexual passion, passionate and someone who is very dynamic in love and relationships.


These people possess some magnetism in their personality which attracts people around them. They are attractive to the opposite sex and very passionate and very romantic in relationships. When Venus and Mars come together these people always want to connect with someone. Relationships are not only important to them, but they also require a fair amount of excitement, adventure, and passion in their partner also. It is generally easy for them to make relationships. For the most part, these people are quite direct about what they want in a relationship. They are quite passionate when it comes to going about getting what they want. These people are generally very creative and artistic. Although not good on the marital side, because it could lead to extra-marital affairs due to over passionate nature.


The Venus and Mars conjunction differ in sign placement .. following are the highlights


Venus and Mars in Aries: It is generally easy for them to make relationships. They are quite very impulsive and very passionate with regards to entering into new relationships. They have too much of sex drive and their love is more of physical side. They are very passionate about beauty as well as action. They are inclined to art, adventure and romance.


Venus and Mars in Taurus: These people have great passion for love and beauty and they use their energy to attain it. They are very sensual in love. They may be over indulgent in food, drinking and luxury of life. They can be good singers.


Venus and Mars in Gemini: These people are very experimental in relationships. They are very playful and amusing in behavior. They are very fun loving and enjoy outdoor activity with their partner but not loyal towards their partner. Loyalty comes after a certain age. They need to understand the seriousness of relationships.


Venus and Mars in Cancer: These people are emotional in relationships and very Skilled and proficient in many arts and poetry. They have an attractive personality but they may suffer on account of their partner due to their emotional nature. They need to control their emotions in relationships.


Venus and Mars in Leo: These people are warm-hearted, zesty and passionate. They have a charming personality. Popular with the public and in the opposite sex. They try to attract people around them and try to be the center of the circle. These people need to learn that everyone is important. These people like to be dressed well. 


Venus and Mars in Virgo: These people are very intellectual in relationships and their passions are good and controlled. If they do get too attached to some desire, they may use cunning methods to attain their aim. Although being very critical in a relationship may create problems due to being over critical in nature. They should learn not to criticize people in relationships.


Venus and Mars in Libra: Although these people are very balanced in relationship but have very strong sexual drives. They may neglect their spouse for the sake of another one. They should not try over indulgent in sex activity otherwise may lead to health problem. They need to learn how to be faithful.


Venus and Mars in Sagittarius: These people are very vibrant, sexual, and charismatic, passionate, free spirit, spontaneous in relationship. They are romantically and sexually adventurous, active, and outspoken. They have direct and  blunt approach to love and sex and  making it easier and feel satisfied and they know what they want in a relationship.


Venus and Mars in Scorpio: These people are very intense and strongly attracted to love, especially sexual love. These people want to explore sex deeply. They may be over possessive towards their partner. They are very very passionate about beauty and the arts. They need to learn to give freedom in relationship to the partner otherwise relationships could be suffocating.


Venus and Mars in Capricorn: These people have a serious approach in relationships. They are very sensual and also enjoy a relationship.  But they start slowly and stay loyal to their partner. They like certainty in a relationship and they are very dedicated partners. Good to have this conjunction in this sign for a long term relationship.


Venus and Mars in Aquarius: These people are active in social life. They are very conscious and very shy in love. They are very soothing in relationships which attract others towards them. They are hard workers, but happiness comes later in their life.


Venus and Mars in Pisces: This is the best conjunction sign. These people do things in life very nicely. These people are very spiritual in love and want to connect on both spiritual as well as physical. They are artistic, charming, generous and loving. They feel very secure and they can give that back to other people also. They feel appreciated and satisfied.



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