Friday, July 3, 2015

Depression in Astrology

Today many among us are suffering from depression. What is depression? Depression is a state of mind the person does not feel happy or good, sometimes people have depression without any reason, despite having all the things in life they are not just happy. We all faces unpleasant thing in life like failure in love, career and many things but some people can handle it but some people can’t handle due to weakness of mind. So what are the reasons for depression astrologically.

Depression is mainly caused by the damaged mind. In astrology mind is represented by the planet Moon. Moon is the receiver of everything whether is good or bad. We all feel happy if we receive good things in life but are not when there are no good things in life.

There are combinations of Moon with other planets which which cause mental stress/problems.

Moon with Saturn, Rahu, and Ketu can give depression. Debilitated Moon, Mercury and Jupiter can give depression.

Moon sitting with Saturn (conjunction), makes person mind heavy. Saturn is limitation, fear of real things, boundaries in life, Saturn shows the truth and reality of life. Moon is the peace of our mind, it want happiness all the time, Moon don’t want to deal with harshness of life. The Saturn and Moon conjunction depress the mind by putting burden of responsibility and feeling of heaviness on emotional state.

Another reason for depression is when Moon sitting with Ketu (conjunction). Ketu is the south node of the Moon, its our subconscious thinking. Ketu is headless body which compel to us to think what is beyond this world, it represents spirituality, nothingness and not interest in materialistic world. When Moon comes with Ketu, cause depression without any reason, the person is not interested in this worldly life, it makes person to hard enjoy life. It makes person to think this ‘’world is illusion there is something which is more eternal and permanent’’. The person just lost in other world and not happy in this world makes person to prone for depression.

Another reason for depression when Moon sitting with Rahu (conjunction). Rahu is north node of the Moon it is materialistic planets. Rahu works on subconscious level. Rahu is desire, want to enjoy materialistic world. Moon with Rahu makes person very immature related with the emotions it makes person like child, as child want everything ‘’now’. It makes person very impatient but the person not geeting in time which they want it makes them prone to depression.

Moon conjunction with these planets in 6th, 8th, and 12 house makes person more prone to depression because Moon is not happy in these houses. But if Moon is exalted means in Taurus sign where mind is stable, it may not give problem but if it debilitated and sitting with these planets can cause depression.

There are some nakshatras in which Moon in not comfortable. Ashlesha nakshatra which fall in in Moon own sign Cancer sign but it is most emotionally turbulent nakshatra. Vishakha nakshatra in which Moon loses its mental peace due to lot of jealous problem makes person prone to depression.

If Moon have these combinations but aspected by Jupiter saves from depression, because Jupiter is the planet of hope, wisdom, and inspiration in life. Jupiter is the only planets which control every planet, especially Rahu. Any aspect Jupiter in these combination makes person hopeful and inspired about life. Jupiter give wisdom about life it gives us hope and inspiration to live life. Therefore good Jupiter saves a person from many evil effect of life. So if we want to live happy life we should understand about planet Jupiter and try to live according that so that we can save ourselves and others from unpleasant things in life.

Life is not about hoo laa laa all the time, one should understand there is something bigger than our personal happiness. If we should learn to accept in life that we can not achieve everything in life so that we can manage depression. 

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Remedy of depression:

1. Pour water or milk on shivling on saturday is great remedy for depression. Lord siva is the infinite field of possibilities, it is ultimate power, it is universe just try to connect with universal power, so that we can better understand about life and live happily.

2. Learn to how to do meditation, it help in to make mind peaceful and give strength to fight with unpleasant things in life.

3. ‘’pranayama’’ a breathing exercise which help in calm down the mind.


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Thursday, July 2, 2015

Dealing with Confused, Unsure, Insecure People

I have been writing articles which are focused on Self Analysis and self improvement. This article is focused on the other people that we are dealing with. I think it should always our effort to minimize number of variables on our side, but there are some factors on the other side that needs to be considered as well. We cannot spend all our energy just trying to fit into a mold and make it work out.. there will always be some situations, scenario's or people where it is not worth the effort ... save ourselves the energy and be happy.

Following is a short list of categories, there could be more, but will be a good starting point..
 
Confused People: When we engage with people who are confused they have no idea what is going on.. When we deal with confused people they will further slow you down as they don't know what is going on.. if they are not willing to listen then how is it possible to have a relationship or work with them.
 
Unsure/ Undecided People: These people are undecided in what to do  for what ever reason.. they cannot think rationally about it. If you are dealing with these kind of people who cannot decide things in life.. do you think there life will turn out to be good.. may be may be not.. If you end up having relationships with these kind of people what will happen? If two of you cannot decide anything then how will things work out..

Insecure People: These are people who are insecure . Insecurity in them make them think differently even when it is not required. Insecure people will always think that you are taking advantage of them even when you are not.. How can you work out a relationship when the other person is always thinking that you are taking advantage of them and will always distrust you..

Negative People: When ever we have a conversation they are always on the other side .. they may be practical people trying to be a devils advocate or someone who is by nature negative in their outlook towards life. It is for us to decide if the person is practical or being devils advocate.. if we cannot for our own good then we need to stay away from these people as they will not let us do better in life as they are down and will pull us down as well. 

Argumentative People: Well what can I say about it .. if you see people who often get into arguments then you better avoid both the person.. One could be the wrong kind of person and one could be not smart enough to avoid the argument.. In both the cases we should avoid these kind of people as we are trying to make our life better not argue without any outcome or better things in life.

Absolute Believer in Fate: For these people whatever they do it is in fate and fate will happen anyways so why resist it.. would you want to be with a person who say everything is a fate, no freewill.. than to find solution to our present problems and issues.

Lack of Articulations: These are people with bad vocabulary and expression..for them the word you say means very different than what you want to convey. Avoid these kinda people as things will get lost in translation , but if you have patience then you can explain yourself in detail and put an effort to understand what they are saying. In the end you may find it easy to work with a person who can understand your vocabulary and expressions. (Not knowing common language is different than the vocabulary in my point of view)

Complicated in Dealing: These are people for them even a trivial thing is a big deal and too complicated. You will end up spending lot of time doing small things, you will not have time to do the other things that can make your life better. Avoid these people or be ready to spend lot of time getting things done.

If we are any of the above we probably are already facing difficulties dealing with other people. If Yes, then we need to figure out how we change ourselves for better and live a happy life and when we find a person with these qualities we need to be cautious in dealing with them as they can make our mind uneasy and induce uncertainty.
 
Dealing with Confused, Unsure, Insecure People

Wednesday, July 1, 2015

What you said meant totally different to someone else

Have you ever been in a situation where you carefully said something and it was interpreted by someone as very different than what you ment.. They could simply repeat the words you have used and they say that you meant something different than what you said. What do you do in this situation..

I think you have no control over how another person is thinking and interpreting the words. The only option you are left with is to say something and ask for what they understood. You can clarify what you said .. but then it is upto the person who is listening to accept what you have to say.

You have no control over it .. this is only true when we have said things very clearly and with a context around it. If not we are partly to blame as we have not provided enough context and background of what we have to say.

One thing is for sure is that we cannot make people think our way .. as to exactly what we are trying to say with the context.. We have to generalize the information when we share and go deep only when people have the context and are willing to communicate otherwise they will not understand and give you a bad press.

In some ways it is better to talk less to these people.. but than you will have so many people like that around you.. We need to improve our communication to be able to package the communication as per the individual .. I think it is a constant learning and trying to be better.. or avoid these kind of people and talk less to them.