Sexual Compatibility Husband and Wife in Marriage/Couples Astrology

Sex plays a major role in marriage for happiness. If couples are satisfied with each other sexually definitely it is very strong glue between couples and there is less chances of couples to wander here and there. In astrology there is a unique kuta system which is used to check sexual compatibility between couples. In this system each Moon nakshatra belongs to an animal and according to that animal the person has sexual behaviour. Every animal has a unique way of sexual behavior and according to that animal humans have similar kind of sexual behaviour. You can observe animals. Those animals who are enemies to each other they also act enemy to humans also. We all know snakes and mongoose are enemies. It also works in the same manner in humans also. e.g. if women have serpent yoni and men have mongoose yoni then they are not compatible with each other. In fact they don’t like each other. It can create problems between couples. According to the matching there are points assigned to these nakshatra. Minimum point  is 0  and maximum points is 4.  There is a pair in nakshatra, male and female.

There are two kinds of Yoni Kuta

Nakshatra Yoni

 

	Male	Female	Animal Yoni
1	Ashwini	Shatabhisha	Horse
2	Bharani	Revati	Elephant
3	Pushya	Krittika	Sheep
4	Rohini	Mrigashira	Serpent
5	Mula	Ardra	Dog
6	Ashlesha	Punarvasu	Cat
7	Magha	Purva Phalguni	Rat
8	Uttara phalguni	Uttara Bhadra	Cow
9	Swati	Hasta	Buffalo
10	Vishakha	Chitra	Tiger
11	Jyeshtha	Anuradha	Hare
12	Purva Ashadha	Sharvana	Monkey
13	Purva Bhadra	Dhanishtha	Lion
14	Uttara Ashadha	None	Mangoose

Marriage between people of the same animal class of yoni produces great happiness, perfect harmony and children. e.g. Ashwini is a male horse and Satabhisha is a female horse. If these two people get married like women have satabhisha nakshatra and men have ashwini nakshatra, then this could be a perfect match. It is generally better if men have male Moon’s nakshatra and women have female Moon’s nakshatra. If both are male then frequent and lack of agreement around sexuality. e.g.If men have Magha Moon’s nakshatra and women have Swati Moon’S nakshatra then both are male then resulting in some conflict.

The following table shows the extent of match between different yoni. The maximum is 4 and minimum is 0.

Four out of four is excellent sexual compatibility.

Three out of four is good sexual compatibility.

Two out of four is mediocre sexual compatibility.

One out of four is bad sexual compatibility.

	Ho	Ele	She	Ser	Dog	Cat	Rat	Cow	Buff	Tig	Hare	Mon	Mang	Lion
Horse	4	2	2	3	2	2	2	1	0	1	3	3	2	1
Elephant	2	4	3	3	2	2	2	2	3	1	2	3	2	0
Sheep	2	3	4	2	1	2	1	3	3	1	2	0	3	1
Serpent	3	3	2	4	2	1	1	1	1	2	2	2	0	2
Dog	2	2	1	2	4	2	1	2	2	1	0	2	1	1
Cat	2	2	2	1	2	4	0	2	2	1	3	3	2	1
Rat	2	2	1	1	1	0	4	2	2	2	2	2	1	2
Cow	1	2	3	1	2	2	2	4	3	0	3	2	2	1
Buffalo	0	3	3	1	2	2	2	3	4	1	2	2	2	1
Tiger	1	1	1	2	1	1	2	0	1	4	1	1	2	1
Hare	1	2	2	2	0	3	2	3	2	1	4	2	2	1
Monkey	3	3	0	2	2	3	2	2	2	1	2	4	3	2
Mangoose	2	2	3	3	1	2	1	2	2	2	2	3	4	2
Lion	1	0	1	2	1	1	2	1	2	1	1	2	2	4

One can check points from this table. Which nakshatra is most compatible and which are not.

The most compatible animal is elephant and least compatible is lion. As we know elephants are very docile animals but lions are not. 

Animals which should be avoided as they are natural enemies. 

1. Cow and Tiger

2. Elephant and Lion

3. Horse and Buffalo

4. Dog and Hare

5. Serpent and Mongoose

6. Monkey and Goat

7. Cat and Rat.

Apart from comparing Moon’s nakshatra of each partner for sexual compatibility one should also compare the planets and houses relating to lovemaking, romance and sex pleasure in the horoscope. Such as a planet of love for Venus, 5th, house for romance and 7th, 12th house for bed pleasure. 

 

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Marriage/Wedding Date Astrology

Firstly it is important to bear in mind that a marriage is not merely a particular contractile arrangement between two consenting adults. It is the union of two entire families and many of the rites in the wedding ceremony stress this important fact. Marriage transforms one’s entire life and put into a whole new area of responsibilities, obligations,happiness and growth or no growth on spiritual level. Indian society is very complex and sometimes seems very horrible especially for women. Because it is the women who leaving her house and adjusting with husband family. Everything to do with India it’s terribly complex! Right? So Marriage is not a social contract temporarily entered into under the influence of romance or dissolved at one’s pleasure but it is the most important religious sacrament, necessary for every individual to realize fully one’s potential and to fulfill the responsibilities which one’s owes to one’s self, one’s family, and to society at large. Marriage, therefore, is to every Hindu, not merely institutionalized pleasure, or primarily a source of gratification of sentimental longings or romantic loves, but an act of duty, a matter of moral and religious obligation and a duty on everyone in all normal situation. So Marriage is big decision in everyone life and therefore it very important to choose marriage date carefully.

Those people who believe in Astrology is the big help for them because there is always influence of planets according to their astrologically position in the sky. As above, so below, It pays to know in advance what kind of planetary alignment in the sky so that marriage ceremony should perform without any hassle. having a good astrological date according to the planets in the sky may avoid many problems in marriage.

Importance of the days of the week which comes in the panchang.

Monday: Is good.

Tuesday: Not good. Those people marry on Tuesday, they always have quarrelsome problem in their married life.

Wednesday: Is good.

Thursday: Best day

Friday: Excellent

Saturday: Those people marry on Saturday have obstruction, delay and increase chances of divorces.

Sunday: Not good.

Now comes on the planets.

Moon: There is phases of moon .

Waning moon: Not good.
Waxing moon: Is good.

There are some tithi ( dates) which are good and some are not good.

The lunar cycle takes a total of 30 days, that is, from one New Moon to the next. The days of the lunar cycle are called Tithis. The tithis are numbered from 1 to 15. they repeat for each half of the lunar cycle. Each of these “lunar days” also has specific effect. Certain tithis are positive, and others tithis are considered negative, and therefore more chances towards problems. The 4th, 9th, and 14th days of the lunar cycle both the waxing and the waning halves are designated as Ritka, i.e., empty for results. The Rikta tithis are generally avoided for marriage ceremony.

Now comes to the Venus planet of love:

Venus is strongest in the signs of Taurus, Libra, and Pisces: Is good.

Venus conjunct with Jupiter: Is good for wedding

Venus in the signs of her detriment and fall like, Scorpio, Aries, Capricorn and Virgo: Not good.

If Venus retrograde: Not good.

If Venus conjunct with Saturn, Mars and Sun: Not good.

House in the birth chart:

Planets in angular houses are the most powerful planets in the chart. Pick a time for your ceremony when the benefics, Venus and Jupiter, are angular and well aspected in the wedding chart.

When Venus or Jupiter transiting to the Ascendant, or 7th house cusp of the chart: Is good.

When Saturn, Mars or Sun transiting to Ascendant, or 7th house cusp of the chart: Not good.

The Lunar nodes, Rahu and Ketu are always opposite each other, are placed in the 1st and 7th house for one of the parties. Rahu, the planet who causes eclipses, when posited in the first and 7th house: Is NOT GOOD.

These are some astrologically configuration which should be look for marriage date.

Checking Compatibility A Hindu marriage arrangement is good way to check whether two people fulfill their marriage dharma or not. It is good way to negate situations like separation and divorce. In Indian culture divorce is still a social stigma and very tough on women who are not working or depending on their husband for living. So when entering into a marriage arrangement it is with the understanding that you will be together for the rest of your lives — come what may. One should not take it lightly, thinking - "O well, if this doesn't work out we can always get divorced and try again!" Therefore ideally marriages should only be contracted when there is the highest degree of compatibility between the couple. So the first step in getting married is to find out your compatibility score.


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Remedy for Broken Relationship in Astrology

When we go through difficult times in life or break in a relationship and feel the suffering, we need to remind ourselves that the Universe does not hurt us, but rather seeks to transform within us. But often transformation begins ruthlessly by taking away the things from us, we think we need most or we love the most. Not only do hard circumstances take away our relationships, but they give us some glimpses into our own “flaws” and what we need to improve. So what can we do when our wounds, our ugliness, or when our unloving feelings arise?

The healing work starts first beneath the surface of consciousness. Just like a physical wound heals from the inside out. We might be wise to tend to this wound in a very similar way to any other wound. Here are some things to consider:

1: Take your time out: When you are wounded you stop. Just as when you are sick you go to bed, so also do the same when your “heart is breaking”. Your energy flows inward to question and grieve, leaving you little energy for anything else. Give yourself a break, slow down, and take care of your basic needs: Food, rest, and basic self-care.

2: Try to know what is the problem: What is a difficult time to tell you something? Is this the last wound of a broken relationship, ( e.g. Saturn transit over your natal Venus ) How do you describe the condition, how long have you had it, and how did you get it? The wounded heart often needs some time to heal. You can do some of these things.

3: Create a Get-well Plan for yourself: Apply something to calm the pain down. Go inward to find the healer within yourself. This inner healer, speaking perhaps this time with the voice of divine power. Your own intuitive healer may say you’ve got to write it out, paint it out, cry or rage it out, or simply clean your house with a passion. Let your inner Saturn as healer, although things have changed, but they are moving in new directions with new possibilities. You may benefit by getting away for a while from your home or circle of friends. Go for a retreat or vacation to some place where you can gain perspective. Even a day away, or something to break up familiar routines can help.

Considering surrounding yourself with things that innately hold inspiring energy, or simply things you love, color, plants, and enjoy your time with nature, is a good way to overcome your depression. This could be allowing yourself things you’ve tended to deny yourself. Why not get yourself a pet, fresh flowers, a musical instrument, or whatever else you may have put on hold. After divorce, many people hated the loneliness of a double bed. So they can bring anything like an aquarium and are delighted in watching the fishes. Consider what lessons or insights can be gained and be open to the idea of how this experience can generate new possibilities for you. Move beyond shame and blame. Find out what was unconscious and invisible in the relationship. Keep cleaning your fears, anger, and irritation. It hurts, but you need to understand the part you played in this wounding. So it won’t be repeated in the future. During difficult times we often regress to obsessive-compulsive coping patterns. So by admitting your anger and your less-than-perfect behavior, you cleanse the wound with a deeper level of understanding.

4: Make a plan: The plan is your attitude and your healing therapy. It will be temporary and will need to be changed. Stick with your plan even when it’s hard. If you re-expose yourself to your ex-partner you are re-engaging in the shame/blame game. Don’t expose yourself to this wound again unless you’re with someone that can help you.

5: Give time to heal yourself: Protect your heart from the sometimes toxic advice of well-meaning friends, and resist the urge to expose your vulnerability to the world. So be patient and pace yourself. Can you create some scheduled routines and “dates” in your week? This could be as simple as knowing that on what day you can go to yoga, gym, and walk in the morning for 20 minutes. Every Saturday night you can go out to dinner with friends, and every Sunday night you can call someone whom you trust, for a heartfelt talk. Put the schedule up in a place. If you feel you need it. Like all wounding, full healing takes time, but we don’t have to suffer constantly. Build trust in yourself, that you are loveable and that we can love again. Trust in the process, forgive yourself if you’re not perfect. With time you will see the wound is healing beneath the surface.

6: Natural therapy for depression: Take plenty of fresh juice, green vegetables and sprouts e.g. alfalfa and mung daal. you can take cottage cheese and butter milk if it suits you. Take fresh lettuce, celery, grape fruits, or apple juice especially in the night before sleeping.

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