Friday, May 1, 2015

Family Relationship How Astrology can Help

Family is what makes us complete and we all dream to have a nice loving family.. Does it workout by itself may be not .. We all have to work hard and keep it together. We all know what we can see and hear .. But what about what's happening at the emotional and subconscious level. If we have a clue of how everyone is perceiving the relationships it may help us. Synastry is mostly used for analyzing relationship of a couple . It can be used for understanding relationships with any one, be it parents, guide or anyone.

In a family following are core relationship 
  1. between husband and wife. 
  2. son/daughter with mother 
  3. daughter/son with father
These all relationships can get entangled as we stay together and grow.This is especially required as today we are not able to spend much time together. With this insight we can be close, connected and have an enriching relationships in the family.

Relationship between Husband and wife is complicated with time we start taking each other for granted or we have conflicts which we cannot resolve.  With this insight you will know what buttons not to push and what are the needs of spouse.. which can lead to a loving and comfortable relationship.

Relationships with Children


Child’s perception of mother can be analyzed by certain influence in the birth chart of the child. It indicates mind of the child and how a child is able to relate to the mother. By understanding this a mother can connect with the child at an emotional level.

Child’s perception of father can be analyzed by certain influence in the birth chart of the child. It indicate child personality influence of the father and where a child will need recognition from father.  By understanding this a father can have some insight into how the child is thinking.


Mother if we look at it plays the most important role in raising the family. They nourish the family, is amazing at multitasking and can relate to everyone at a emotional level. Some how we assume and expect this from the lady of the house. Traditionally women has done this role, today the role is changing and women's are contributing in higher percentage in workforce as well.

As we are longer in marriage and children grows they some how figure out keeping their emotions ,insecurities and fear to themselves and somehow not let it out due to the fear of being miss understood ,appearance of being week or emotionally vulnerable.
 
How can astrology help you to be the super women that could do all with a smile. Here astrology insights can help you by understanding the subconscious influences on the family.. Some of it even we are not aware of. With this insight ... What is happening between your child and universe a mother can engage and figure out a way to induce freewill and thoughts that may steer your child and relationship from harms way and let your children achieve their dreams by educating them to be able to make right decisions.

If the chart  reflects a learning karma in relationship as a mother you can guide their child to be more mature and mindful in relationship and not let someone take advantage of them and be diligent in relationships with better communication.

If the chart reflects a tough karma in career.. As a mother you can teach your child to be hard working ,focused and have better communication and presentation skills. 
 
If the chart reflects health related concerns.. As a mother you can teach your child to be better and mindful of what they are eating and how they build their eating habits.. This could keep them healthy for life..

If your child has challenge in communication you can work on it from the beginning to improve their communication skills so that they don't feel shy or lack of confidence when speaking to others.

If you work closely with an astrologer .. An astrologer can in fact list the areas where your child will be naturally inclined ..you can use this as a guide to make your child excel and succeed.. Also an astrologer can highlight areas where your child will be withdrawn .. Sometimes these could be important in the materialistic world which they need to learn and be better at. As a mother you can introduce these areas as necessary evil of life which needs to be taken care even if we don't want to.

As a mother you have an opportunity to induce healthy habits in your children and loved one's life, good habits and freewill can minimize the effects of bad influences on us.
With all these insights you will internally feel connected with your family and will be happy.








Soul Purpose in Life (Rahu and Ketu) in Astrology
 

Thursday, April 16, 2015

Waxing and Waning Moon Astrology

In Astrology Moon is a very important planet because Moon rules our mind and consciousness. according to our mind or conscious we perceive things. The world is same, people are same but it is our internal environment which is not same and according to that, we react to the people and things around us. The moon represents our instinctual responses to life and carries our unconscious memories from past lives.

What are Moon Phases?

The relationship between the Sun and Moon in the sky is what creates the waxing and waning light of the moon each month. As the whole moon cycle from new moon to new moon is 4 weeks long. The Moon Phases refer to the moon's orbit around the earth in relation to the Sun. In astrology, the Moon influences the mind depending on whether the moon is full, new, increasing or decreasing in your birth chart.  The moon phases repeat the same cycles every month. Every month there is the last quarter and decreasing moon, also referred to as the waning moon, leading to the new moon, the new moon first quarter and increasing moon is also referred to as the waxing moon leading to the full moon, and the cycle starts over again. The first quarter and last quarter moon are ninety degrees to the sun and are exactly half in shadow, half in light. The new moon is the moon's side in darkness. The full moon is the completely illuminated side of the moon.

Mostly people think that Waning Moon is not good and does not give good result. We should discriminate in our interpretation between what is called waxing and waning aspects.

According to vedic astrology, the Waxing or increasing Moon brings new ideas and activities. The Full Moon is the fully illuminated moon, and activities and celebrations are heightened in creativity and effect. The Waning or decreasing Moon symbolizes winding down of activities, and purification. And the New Moon is a time for reflection and introspection. The waxing side of the aspect cycle is where we come up with ideas, make plans to implement them, and actually put these plans into action, building something real, something outward and usually in the physical world. This is where we give. The waning side of the aspect cycle is where we work with whatever we have built and created, coming to understand what it is, how to best use it, and what it means to us. Here we are receiving, accepting what is, and learning to work with that. Waxing Moon helps the area of life it influences to grow. Waning Moon causes external areas of life to fade, while causing one’s inner worlds to grow. With a waning Moon, we experience loss of outer world in order to gain inner fulfillment and inner growth. Those people who have waning moon if they know how to manage their emotions they can really do good meditation practice.  

Moon represents pearl, purity, healing, and white color. White holds all colors of the spectrum. Silver is the other color associated with the moon. In Vedic astrology, wearing gemstones such as pearl, moonstone, silver or white quartz used for remedies for get benefits from the Moon energy. By wearing the silver and white colors you can make a connection with the Moon and it helps you to stay calm and cool. 

Moon, Emotions, Mother








Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Benefic and Malefic Planets in Astrology



In Vedic Astrology there are nine planets and according to their nature they are known as benefic (good)  and malefic (not good) planets. Rahu (North Node) and Ketu (South Node) are always considered malefics planets for everyone, but these are the points which helps in your soul growth after giving mental suffering. 


Benefic (good) planets are: Waxing Moon, Venus, and Jupiter. These planets are considered mild and benefics in general. 


Malefics (not good) planets are: Waning Moon, Mars, Saturn and Sun. These planets are considered cruel in nature and malefics in general. 


But this is not the truth. The planets benefic or malefic is depending on the house rulerships of the planets according to your ascendant. 


Every planet rules different houses according to the ascendant and on the basis of that planets considered benefics and malefics. 


In vedic astrology there are some houses which are considered malefic and these houses are 6th, 8th and 12th houses. Depending on your ascendant these house rules by different planets and these planets considered malefic for that particular ascendant.  These planets are known as functional malefics because they give results of malefics houses. 


Every planet rules two signs in Vedic astrology and has its mooltrikona signs; it means the sign is stronger in nature.


         PLANET                       LORD                                  MOOLTRIKONA SIGN


  1. Sun                            Leo                                       Leo  (0-20 degrees)

  2. Moon                         Cancer                                  Taurus  (4 - 20 degrees)

  3. Mars                          Aries, Scorpio                        Aries  (0-12 degrees)

  4. Mercury                     Virgo, Gemini                        Virgo  (16-20 degrees)

  5. Jupiter                       Sagittarius, Pisces                 Sagittarius  (0-10 degrees)

  6. Venus                      Taurus, Libra                           Libra  (0-17 degrees)

  7. Saturn                       Capricorn, Aquarius                Aquarius  (0-20 degrees)


So if these planet's mooltrikona sign falls in 6th, 8th, and 12th house that planet is considered malefic. 


So let's see what are functional malefics planets for each ascendants:


Aries: Mercury (mooltrikona sign Virgo falls in 6th house). Rahu and Ketu.


Taurus: Venus (mooltrikona sign Libra falls in 6th house), Jupiter (mooltrikona sign Sagittarius falls in 8th house), Mars (mooltrikona sign Aries falls in 12th house), Rahu and Ketu.


Gemini: No mooltrikona signs fall in 6th, 8th and 12th house. So no functional malefics planets for Gemini ascendant. 


Cancer: Jupiter (mooltrikona sign Sagittarius falls in 6th house), Saturn (mooltrikona sign aquarius falls in 8th house). 


Leo: No mooltrikona signs fall in 6th, 8th and 12th house. So no functional malefics planets for Leo ascendant, but Moon considered malefic because it rules the 12th house. 


Virgo: Saturn, (mooltrikona sign Aquarius falls in 6th house), Mars (mooltrikona sign Aries falls in 6th house), Sun, (mooltrikona sign Leo falls in 12th house).


Libra: Mercury (mooltrikona sign Virgo falls in 12th house). 


Scorpio: Mars (mooltrikona sign Aries falls in 6th house), Venus (mooltrikona sign Libra falls in 12th house). 


Sagittarius: The Moon (mooltrikona sign Taurus falls in 6th house). Rahu and Ketu.


Capricorn: The Sun (mooltrikona sign Leo falls in 8th house), Jupiter (mooltrikona sign Sagittarius falls in 12th house).


Aquarius: The Moon considered malefic as it ruled 6th house, Mercury (mooltrikona sign Virgo falls in 8th house). 


Pisces: The Sun (mooltrikona sign Leo falls in 6th house), Venus (mooltrikona sign Libra falls in 8th house), Saturn (mooltrikona sign Aquarius falls in 12th house).


 Rahu and Ketu malefics for every ascendant. 


So whenever these planets mahadasha run, the person suffers through some difficulty in life according to their house rulership.