Friday, September 4, 2015

Moon influence in Divorce, Marriage, Relationship Astrology

If we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble :-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it.. but just do it  like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards down and be who we are without any pretension.  For a marriage to work there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
  1. Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
  2. Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
  3. Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
  4. Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
  5. Aggression, argument and fighting  (Mars)
  6. Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
  7. Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
  8. Learning, teaching, higher wisdom  (Jupiter)
  9. Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
For this conversation we will consider Moon as a planet in relationship, its influences and how it can get us near a divorce if we don't understand it the subconscious influences and change our habits and approach in relationship. 

Moon represents mind, emotions, peace and connection.
 
Let's consider one by one how these are important..

Moon represents mind : When mind is uneasy (Moon with Rahu or combust Moon) get's complicated. Mind is how we perceive what other person is saying and if we have a calm mind we are able to understand what is being said. Imagine if we cannot thing through what is being said and not have a stable mind.. this will cause havoc in a relationship. Meditation can help us calm our mind.

Moon represents emotions: When moon is not in a good dignity (debilitated Moon) we will not feel emotions of others ( Moon with Saturn) and will not have empathy which is a key to a successful marriage. We should try to be have empathy in relationship which can help us connect and prosper.

Moon represents peace: When we are at peace the world and the people around us look likable and beautiful.  When we are not at peace opposite is true.  Moon represents peace of mind , if moon is disconnected ( Moon with Ketu)  our peace of mind will be disturbed which directly effects our relationships. If understand your mind this can be very helpful in understanding your disconnected emotions and help in spiritual  practice. In this situation Meditation can help us calm our mind.



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Living in the moment is Flow , Drishta /Observer Self Analysis

In Spirituality we have a state/concept about living in the moment. This is defined as ultimate happiness as we are into what we are doing and there is nothing else that is distracting.  As per the spirituality if we can live life "Living in the moment" we will have happiness. 

Some researcher have defined this as a "Flow" which delivers a focus and self immersion whenever we get so focused everything else disappears , for that to happen we need to have the building block of the moment so that it doesn't get interrupted.. so a level of competency is required to be in the flow state. 

One example my other passion is photography and I have been wanting to do it for so many years.  Around 2011 I decided that I will learn photography and be good at it. I spent long nights trying to understand the software, the camera capabilities and different  techniques. Once I was able to acquire the basic and little advance skills I was able to spend many hours and it was a joy to make people look good and bring smile on their faces. I would say I was in being in the moment / flow state.

To have the level of happiness I guess we need to know a good level of skills for what we are trying to do. 

In this case we will be only be happy with what we know.. but life is unknown we don't know what will come next so how can we be in the moment / flow probably the other way to look at life will be to start accepting what is coming our way and deal with it in a very thoughtful manner and appreciate the creation of universe. Even the things we don't like are the creation of this universe we need to accept whole heartedly with calmness and without loosing our balance. It is easier said than done.. but that is key to happiness.

In addition to the flow i think there is one more important aspect  which is  Mind & Body..

Mind has no limits and can have thoughts where as Body is limited and has constraints .. e.g it cannot jump very high , get's tired , can have lack of energy and focus.

For being happy our Mind and body needs to be in sync. Mind has to think rationally and body needs to gear-up to achieve what mind desires. If our mind is desiring lot more than a body can do then we need to make the body capable of achieving what it desires. The body needs to be fit, full of energy , flexible and healthy. With out it happiness is far away.. or we need to desire what our body can achieve. 

For the most successful people .. they have a very focused mind and they make the physical self to achieve what is desired.. Be it Steve Jobs , Bill Gates, Larry Ellison anyone who has pushed the limits to make this world a better place.

This is where the concept of Drishta /Observer comes into play. Mind is  the observer of  body and evaluate it's actions and well being. 

Become a Drishta and push limits of this body to achieve what you desire.

consult to understand your subconscious influnces
 

Tuesday, September 1, 2015

Wife (Girl Friend) in Man Chart Astrology



Planet Venus represents a wife or girlfriend in the men chart. In the women's birth chart Jupiter represents husband and Mars represents boyfriend because women life is different than men life.


Women are more complicated emotionally as compared to men. In society the role of men is different than women. Due to this factor women may fall in love with men who are charming, masculine and handsome but these things can not fulfill the necessities of life therefore women marry men who can provide support and security in life. But for men this is opposite, they only want love from a woman therefore for them girlfriend and wife are the same. Because of this reason planet Venus rules both girlfriend and wife in a man's life.


A wife’s role in a man's life is to fulfill his dreams and support him what he wants to do in his life and make his life better and help him in fulfilling his responsibility in life. By looking at the planet Venus position in the man’s chart one can predict the nature of the wife.


We always attract what we are, not what we want. So a man will get a wife depending on the dignity of Venus in their chart. Following are the characteristics/qualities of a wife depending on the placement of Venus.


Venus in Aries: If a man has his Venus in Aries, he may attract a woman who is very independent, aggressive, stronger, very goal oriented, athletic in physics, and very competitive in nature. This woman is very impulsive in love, sexy and individualistic in nature. She is very adventurous and likes to travel. They get a wife who motivates them in their life and dominates them.


Venus in Taurus: If a man has his Venus in Taurus, he may attract a woman who is sensual, beautiful, and has a nice voice. These women can be very demanding for luxurious things, stubborn, simple, practical and like to eat good food. They get a woman who is loyal in relationship and gives security to them financially. These men pursue women who are rich.


Venus in Gemini: If a man has his Venus in Gemini, he may attract a woman who is very talkative, intellectual, creative, fun loving and lively in relationship. They get a woman who likes to write, very pleasant in talking, charming and expert in doing hand work like sewing etc. Here  man gets women who are very smart and very active in household work.


Venus in Cancer: If a man has his Venus in cancer he may attract a woman who is very beautiful, emotional, sensitive, very social and can love them like a mother. They get a woman who likes to nurture, cook, and take care for them. The women are very good at taking care of kids. They get women who are very homey in nature.


Venus in Leo: If a man has his Venus in Leo, he may attract a woman who is very royal, extravagant, likes to dress well, and attention seeking. The women are very creative. She can be a model, in acting, and can be a fashion designer. The woman can be a public figure like in politics, kind of selfish and only about herself only. Here men need to be careful when they are choosing women in their life because here women want a lot of appreciation and importance in a family..


Venus in Virgo: If a man has his Venus in Virgo, he may attract a woman who is very critical in a relationship. Although the woman may be very intelligent and have good clean habits, she complains a lot about everything. And if someone criticizes in love no one will like. The men should be careful in choosing women because the women could be very unromantic in love.


Venus in Libra: If a man has his Venus in Libra, he may attract a woman who is very balanced in relationship. The woman is very romantic, generous, nice in nature, and likes to decorate the home. The woman is good in all types of relationships. She makes harmony and peace at home. The men are lucky to have Venus in Libra.


Venus in Scorpio: If a man has his Venus in Scorpio, he may attract a woman who is very unpredictable, dramaful in emotions and very secretive in relationship. The women can be very possessive, suspicious and have a very investigative mind in relationships and love. Here the men get a woman who is in mysticism of life and kind of mysterious.


Venus in Sagittarius: If a man has his Venus in Sagittarius, he may attract a woman who is very philosophical, religious, spiritual and may be of different culture or religion. They get a woman who is very interested in knowing about the different cultures of the world. She likes to mix with all kinds of people.


Venus in Capricorn: If a man has his Venus in Capricorn, he may attract a woman who is very cold, conservative and backward in thinking. The woman is very unromantic in the relationship. They get a woman who is very structured and organized in nature. Women can be very hard working, career and reputation oriented.


Venus in Aquarius: If a man has his Venus in Aquarius, he may attract a woman who is a very unconventional, social, friendly and eccentric type of woman. Women have a universal kind of thinking. These women don’t think about themselves but think about others also. They get women who think to go for the world like activists in something. Here men get a woman who is socialist.


Venus in Pisces: If a man has his Venus in Pisces, he may attract a woman who is very spiritual, devoted, selfless, and love for all kinds of types. Here Venus is exalted means Venus is full potential. The men get a woman who is very loving to everyone and spiritual nature. 


By knowing Venus' position a man can know about his Venus energy and wife. Any planet sitting next to Venus or aspecting will change the behavior or qualities of the planet.





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