Remedy for Broken Relationship in Astrology

When we go through difficult times in life or break in a relationship and feel the suffering, we need to remind ourselves that the Universe does not hurt us, but rather seeks to transform within us. But often transformation begins ruthlessly by taking away the things from us, we think we need most or we love the most. Not only do hard circumstances take away our relationships, but they give us some glimpses into our own “flaws” and what we need to improve. So what can we do when our wounds, our ugliness, or when our unloving feelings arise?

The healing work starts first beneath the surface of consciousness. Just like a physical wound heals from the inside out. We might be wise to tend to this wound in a very similar way to any other wound. Here are some things to consider:

1: Take your time out: When you are wounded you stop. Just as when you are sick you go to bed, so also do the same when your “heart is breaking”. Your energy flows inward to question and grieve, leaving you little energy for anything else. Give yourself a break, slow down, and take care of your basic needs: Food, rest, and basic self-care.

2: Try to know what is the problem: What is a difficult time to tell you something? Is this the last wound of a broken relationship, ( e.g. Saturn transit over your natal Venus ) How do you describe the condition, how long have you had it, and how did you get it? The wounded heart often needs some time to heal. You can do some of these things.

3: Create a Get-well Plan for yourself: Apply something to calm the pain down. Go inward to find the healer within yourself. This inner healer, speaking perhaps this time with the voice of divine power. Your own intuitive healer may say you’ve got to write it out, paint it out, cry or rage it out, or simply clean your house with a passion. Let your inner Saturn as healer, although things have changed, but they are moving in new directions with new possibilities. You may benefit by getting away for a while from your home or circle of friends. Go for a retreat or vacation to some place where you can gain perspective. Even a day away, or something to break up familiar routines can help.

Considering surrounding yourself with things that innately hold inspiring energy, or simply things you love, color, plants, and enjoy your time with nature, is a good way to overcome your depression. This could be allowing yourself things you’ve tended to deny yourself. Why not get yourself a pet, fresh flowers, a musical instrument, or whatever else you may have put on hold. After divorce, many people hated the loneliness of a double bed. So they can bring anything like an aquarium and are delighted in watching the fishes. Consider what lessons or insights can be gained and be open to the idea of how this experience can generate new possibilities for you. Move beyond shame and blame. Find out what was unconscious and invisible in the relationship. Keep cleaning your fears, anger, and irritation. It hurts, but you need to understand the part you played in this wounding. So it won’t be repeated in the future. During difficult times we often regress to obsessive-compulsive coping patterns. So by admitting your anger and your less-than-perfect behavior, you cleanse the wound with a deeper level of understanding.

4: Make a plan: The plan is your attitude and your healing therapy. It will be temporary and will need to be changed. Stick with your plan even when it’s hard. If you re-expose yourself to your ex-partner you are re-engaging in the shame/blame game. Don’t expose yourself to this wound again unless you’re with someone that can help you.

5: Give time to heal yourself: Protect your heart from the sometimes toxic advice of well-meaning friends, and resist the urge to expose your vulnerability to the world. So be patient and pace yourself. Can you create some scheduled routines and “dates” in your week? This could be as simple as knowing that on what day you can go to yoga, gym, and walk in the morning for 20 minutes. Every Saturday night you can go out to dinner with friends, and every Sunday night you can call someone whom you trust, for a heartfelt talk. Put the schedule up in a place. If you feel you need it. Like all wounding, full healing takes time, but we don’t have to suffer constantly. Build trust in yourself, that you are loveable and that we can love again. Trust in the process, forgive yourself if you’re not perfect. With time you will see the wound is healing beneath the surface.

6: Natural therapy for depression: Take plenty of fresh juice, green vegetables and sprouts e.g. alfalfa and mung daal. you can take cottage cheese and butter milk if it suits you. Take fresh lettuce, celery, grape fruits, or apple juice especially in the night before sleeping.

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Tara System in Jamini Astrology

‘Tara’ means Birth Star (nakshatra) and Tara is calculated to assess compatibility of the other planets nakshatra from the birth star of the individual. It gives clear picture of how the other planets have relationship with the birth star.

To calculate this, you need to take into account the Janma Nakshatra of the person and count in the numbers including janma nakshatra. Whatever numbers comes to the planets it shows what kind of result you will get in that planet mahadasha..

This system use for those people who don’t have their birth time but know their date of birth. There are 27 Nakshatras which Vedic Astrology divides into 9 categories of birth stars, namely-

1. Jenma Tara: which is used to assess the looks of the individual.

2. Sampath Tara: fortune; to assess wealth and prosperity. It is considered to have a good effect.

3. Vipath Tara: disaster; possibility of difficulties or problems in life. It is considered to have a malefic effect.

4. Kshema Tara: well being; to assess prosperity. It is considered to have a good effect.

5. Prathyara Tara: obstruction; to assess possibility of obstacles in life. It is considered to have a malefic effect.

6. Sadhaka Tara:  aid; to assess success.It is considered to have a good effect.

7. Vadham Tara: disagreement; to assess sufferings or any hardships in life of the person. It is considered to have a malefic effect.

8. Maithra Tara: friendship; It is considered to have a good effect.

9. Parama Maithra:  intimate friendship; to assess success and It is considered to have a good effect.

This system also used in marriages to check compatibility between couples. And if it is match then couples gets 3 points in ashtakoota system.



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Musculine and Feminine flow in Relationship

Masculine and Feminine flow in Relationship

The terms masculine and feminine are terms used to describe active and passive energy.  Masculine known as male energy and it's active and positive. Feminine energy is described as female energy and passive and negative energy. Masculine energy is outward and action oriented which we can relate with man and feminine energy is inward which we can relate with the women. As we know women are defined differently than men. Women are more emotional than men and their physical needs are different than men. Women need to take care of their body more than men because women have different bodily functions than men.  Women want more nurturing, caring, connection and love to feel good. Men are different from women on a mental level and also on a physical level. Men's needs are different from women's. Mens are more outward and they want to connect on physical level rather than emotional level. 

So masculine and feminine flow of energy is very important in a relationship. This flow should be in the right direction, otherwise there will be problems in bonding between couples. A man should be in masculine role and a woman should be in feminine role to feel good in a relationship. Depending on masculine and feminine energy of a couple they interact with each other. In relationships women want to experience her feminine nature and men want to come to experience their masculine nature. So women want to be with a man who is in the initiating role and she can surrender, relax in her feminine power and men want to be in an initiating role where he can feel his masculinity. If this flow is reversed then there is a reversal flow of energy. If women in initiating roles and behaving like men then men will not like it and if a men behave like a women be passive and not doing any action, women will not like and this could be a triggering point for couples not interested in each other with time. Basically in relationships we're putting ourselves in a situation where we want to experience our gender in a powerful way like men want to come to know their masculine nature and women come to know their feminine nature in relationships.  

In the relationship astrology how to assess an individual's chart for relationship potential. This is probably the most important and overlooked factor in any relationship assessment.  We need to assess each individual's potential for masculinity and femininity energy in relationship by checking planets in signs. whether planets  are in mascaline or in feminine signs. . 

In astrology there are 12 signs and each sign ruled by planets. There are six signs which are masculine and six are feminine. All the fire and air signs are masculine and all the water and earth signs are feminine. Feminine signs tend to be much more reserved and reactive, while the masculine are much more outgoing and active. 

Masculine	Feminine
Leo ( Sun )	Cancer  ( Moon )
Virgo ( Mercury )	Gemini ( Mercury )
Libra ( Venus )	Taurus ( Venus )
Aries  ( Mars )	Scorpio ( Mars )
Sagittarius ( Jupiter )	Pisces ( Jupiter  )
Aquarius ( Saturn )	Capricorn  ( Saturn )

                                                                                      

As we know all the planets exist within us in the form of astral bodies.  If we look at Vedic south indian chart, the planets connect with feminine and masculine energy of the chakra system of the human body and they exist in pairs. e. g. Venus in Taurus is feminine and Venus in Libra is masculine. The concepts of masculine and feminine are universal. These masculine and feminine energies exist within us through the chakra system and it shows up when we interact with another person. 

In a man's chart, I will look at the capacity to initiate and to have confidence to have the capability and to stay consistent in our life because men are looking to bond and connect with their masculine in a relationship; this is what gives a healthy and positive feeling in a relationship. Sun, Mars and Jupiter are masculine planets, so they should be in masculine sign in man’s chart. if these planets in feminine sign than man have a crisis of masculinity by being in a situation with a woman who is having a crisis of femininity. For women these planets should be in feminine signs and if not than women trying to initiate relationships which do not feel so good. So a Woman looking for a  man who has capability, consistency,  strengths and confidence so that she can relax in her femininity. 

Venus and the Moon are feminine planets and they should be in feminine sign in the woman's chart and in masculine sign in the man's chart. Venus is the planet love sex, fun, beauty and where we find beauty. Moon is the emotion and heart’s capacity to feel joy. In a man’s chart if  Venus and Moon should be in a masculine sign it'll be more initiating and if a woman’s Venus and Moon is in feminine sign it will be more aligned with her gender integrity. If it is reversed than women in initiating roles in love and men in receiving roles in love which does not feel so good. Therefore masculine feminine interaction is incredibly important in relationships and it should be checked properly. 

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