Showing posts with label FreeWill. Show all posts
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Tuesday, December 22, 2015

Karma-"Law Of Attraction"-Spirituality makes you a better Entrepreneur?

en·tre·pre·neur is a noun. A person who organizes and operates a business or businesses, taking on greater than normal financial risks in order to do so and in lot of cases they are the innovators as well.

Definition of Karma found on web: The sum of a person's actions in this and previous states of existence, viewed as deciding their fate in future existences. An Entrepreneur believes in Karma and is a person who believes in defining it. Without an Entrepreneur the future may not be better than what it is today.

Law of Attraction : The law of attraction states that every positive or negative things that happens in our life is attracted by us. To some extent what it is saying is that our mind is the most powerful thing.. We can desire anything with a pure and focused mind we will be able to achieve it. For an entrepreneur this is the key driver and strong desire of what they want to achieve.
 
Spirituality and Meditation : Meditation and engaging in spirituality helps us relax which in turn energize and rejuvenate our mind. It helps us connect with our inner self. When we connect with our inner self we understand happiness and we are able to connect with others easily. For an entrepreneur to have success they need to connect with their coworkers, employees and users. Without being able to connect the success will be a long drive.

to avoid ego and shortcomings, Understand influences on your mind have 1on1 with yourself

 One-on-One with Yourself & Entrepreneur
Karma-Law Of Attraction-Spirituality makes you a better Entrepreneur?
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Tuesday, December 15, 2015

Conversation can go 3 ways..How to be Happy.. Self Analysis

Communication with other people is a major part of our life , we communicate with our parents, siblings, spouse, relations and at work. Communication is how we share the feeling of love and affection. This is one of the most important skill to have if we are good at it we could be happy, get more done and prosperous in life. 
If we cannot communicate well then life will be miserable, people don't understand you, you are not able to get your point or feeling across. It will be a disaster.

 Probably good communication is one of the main things to have a happy and joyful life.
 
1) Adding context and meaning to the topic/conversation: Sometime an issue/topic is not well described or understood. To make it understandable we need to add details and context to it , without these details we may have gaps in understanding of a problem/topic. Since we don't understand.. the conversation will look like between people who does not not what is going on. Whenever we hear "You/I Don't Understand" is the time to set context as people are not on the same page.
 
2) Towards generalization : To understand a problem or topic we try to generalize it to be able to relate to it with our surrounding .. since we have different lifestyles everyone's generalization will be related to their experience in life .. which could be very different than the other person you are having conversation. You may have to explain how it relates and help other person relate. otherwise two people are having 2 different conversation at the same time .. you can imagine how it will go..

 3) Narrowing down to a point/conclusion : We try to do it so that we can understand the main influencers of/for the topic or the problem. Sometimes we have multiple influences, It takes an effort to set the ground , describe the reason and explain the connection. This is how we find solutions in our life, If no solutions then we have issues in life to deal with. NO SOLUTION=MISERABLE LIFE.
Now imagine that there are 2 people having a conversation if one person is trying to narrow down the cause other is generalizing or one person is trying to generalize the problem even before a having a complete context. Both will result in incorrect conclusion.

 Don't have a conversation which is hopping from one topic to another.. it will frustrate the other person and they will give up on you.

Without doing things in a sequence , problem solving or conversation is difficult. Figure out what phase of conversation/problem solving you are in.. and align yourself, otherwise it will be hard to have a conversation with you or you having a conversation with someone else.. If you have constant conflicts with people keep in mind life is not a mathematical equation where everyone will have the same equation and values to come to the same conclusion. There could be multiple conclusion and they may be opposite to each other.. that’s how we humans are.. we agree to disagree and still respect and can be together. If these contradictions didn’t exist human evolution would have been slow as everyone would have agree to an opinion and stay with it.. for lot of things when we have the same goals we need to agree, collaborate,execute and be together.

So the suggested sequence is
"Problem/Conversation"--->"Set Context"-->"Generalize it if needed"--> "Narrow down the conclusion"
Explain where ever the disagreement, try to respect other persons opinion and context.
Wishing you the best, have lovely conversations and Happy Journey through life!!!

One a side note : When only god or you close relatives can understand you; that means you need to really work on communication with humans :-), Some of us could get into so called spirituality  to avoid human interaction.

Communication

There is Never a perfect time, but we need to grow up anyways Self Analysis
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Sunday, December 6, 2015

Integrating the opposite Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerberg (Entrepreneur)


I read that when Mark was feeling stuck Steve Jobs convinced Mark Zuckerberg to travel to India and visit same temples he did. Why India? India is on the opposite side of the globe when looked from Silicon Valley with a difference of day and night. The first thing a person needs to do is adjust their body clock which needs resetting. You are dealing with a different culture which is diverse, people are rich and poor. When coming from Silicon Valley where things are planned for you. You are in a place where you needs to plan everything. It will be a mind-shock. Steve jobs Apple didn’t had much operations in India at that time so probably was not a professional advice... it was probably to widen the horizon. I consider Mediation a part of Spirituality. When we feel stuck we need to consider the following.

Disconnect

We cannot solve the problems with the same thinking that the problem was created with. We need to disengage and then engage to be able to view the problem with a different perspective or different thought process. Meditation can help you disconnect and then connect back.

Meditation

Meditation and engaging in spirituality helps us relax which in turn energize and rejuvenate our mind. It helps us connect with our inner self. When we connect with our inner self we understand happiness we are able to connect with others easily.

Empathy

Once we understand our self we can have empathy... We can understand other and know what can gives them happiness. With this understanding one can come up with a good product which connects with the user/consumer. Mark Zuckerberg to donate 99% of his wealth

Integrating the opposite

We know and believe in what we are doing... to think opposite will be hardest thing to do... We need to try thinking in all the opposite/direction... Once we are aware of extremes we understand the spectrum for broader perspective as success is always in between extremes. Without it one can be successful, but may have less probability of redefining industries like Apple or Facebook.

Eternal Happiness and Material Happiness

Material happiness is short lived. We should feel constantly happy or connected using a product. Once we stop being happy, we stop using a product. The product should make us feel happy when using it like Apple or feel connected with other like Facebook. I think this is very true for consumer products.

To summarize when you are in a place where you need to think of everything, you are not in the world of you where you are the greatest, you have just visited the other side of you where you were... vulnerable, looking for guidance and was engaged in life. This is a mind shock which can reset the stuck feeling in an entrepreneur as you have challenged yourself to be different and you are back to what you do best as an entrepreneur.
Integrating the opposite Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerberg (Entrepreneur)
Bridging fear of Failure and Success (Stay Hungry, Stay foolish) Entrepreneur
Materialism/Bhikshu to Spiritualism , Knowing yourself
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Bridging fear of Failure and Success (Stay Hungry, Stay foolish) Entrepreneur

en·tre·pre·neur is a noun. A person who organizes and operates a business or businesses, taking on greater than normal financial risks in order to do so and in lot of cases they are the innovators as well.

When we are taking a risk or say trying out something that has not been done before .. there will be chance that we may fail. We see there are innovators which constantly make something, but does not fail that often for some it is the other way round.

I say many time “Success is what we define as Success”. If lack of our analysis made us believe that we can achieve a thing in a short time. So as an entrepreneur we need to constantly stay in touch and integrate the opposite, for SUCCESS is FAILURE. We need to constantly be open for new ideas which makes things better or helps us to be successful.

Sometimes ideas are from a place where it is least expected rather than a certified authority :-) on the subject. When you are trying to do something new e.g electric car, there will be lot of experts who know how to do GAS driven cars may suggest something. Their advice may be relevant but may not apply to you, where as someone who could not see the complexity of what you are doing suggest you something that may be totally unexpected which may trigger some thought in you which could lead you to where you want to be. This is one reason why we need to be a good listener and have empathy.

When Steve Jobs said that “Stay hungry”.. was to say stay hungry for answers, why , why not. “Stay foolish” be a fool to listen to ideas , be open and try them without letting ego come in the way.

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Friday, July 31, 2015

Name in Astrology

             

 

When a baby is born in a family everyone feels so happy. Parents want to give a good life and all the joy of this world to the baby. Generally the mother is the most concerned with the baby, because she gave birth to a child. Therefore the mother play the most important role in the baby’s name ceremony/puja.


Some people keep their baby’s name without knowing the meaning of the name. Name is very important in someone's life. It acts as a mantra for that particular person, which produces sound effects repeatedly and has an impact on the person's life. If someone chooses a name which is not good in meaning then what will happen? The name is carried throughout their whole life and the person suffers from the worst effect of the name. So one should be very careful in choosing a name


For e.g. if you give your baby girl name Indu, the meaning of Indu is Moon and we know the Moon varies everyday. So if you give this name then the person could be very moody. 


Another e.g  if you give a baby name Atul, the meaning of Atul is matchless. So when the person grows he might not be able to find his partner because he is matchless.


When choosing a name for a newborn child, one should be careful choosing the alphabet.  It should be started with the auspicious sounding letters. It is believed when such an auspicious sounding name is constantly repeated over the years to come, it will act as a mantra, which will bring good energy to the child.  The name should have a good meaning whether it is based on astrology or not.

Importance of name in astrology: In India, people go to the astrologer to choose their baby’s name. The name in astrology is given according to the person ascendant (Rising Sign), or Janma Nakshatra (Position of the Moon) of the child from the horoscope. But in Astrology there are many nakshatra which are not considered good.

There are 27 nakshatra in astrology, and each nakshatras has deities and they can be invoked by the sound. In astrology there is one nakshatra known as Ashlesha, which falls under the Cancer rashi. The ruling deity of this nakshatra  is the serpent king, and this is a very emotionally turbulent nakshatra. So if someone put their baby name according to this nakshatra, this will not be good because the person can attract turbulent energy from the cosmos. So the person should  choose a different alphabet. 


In astrology there is Pushya nakshatra which also falls in the Cancer rashi, but is very different from Ashlesha nakshatra. Pushya nakshatra is the most auspicious. This nakshatra’s ruling deity is brihaspati the lord of speech and prayer. The person born in this nakshatra is very fortunate, has powerful speech and has a good understanding about life.


If the person doesn't have a good Moon and ascendant nakshatra, one should keep a name which attracts good vibration from the cosmos.


The name should have a good meaning and be easy to pronounce. If people keep their baby’s name difficult and it is hard to pronounce, then the meaning of the name  deteriorates, and the person catches that kind of vibration from the universe. 


As we know, the Indian actress Aishwarya Rai is full of wealth, luck, name and fame.

Her naming is very similar to all of these things. See how the name works in someone's life. So one should be aware of the meaning of a name. The person attracts vibration according to their name. So one should be careful while choosing a name.



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Sunday, July 26, 2015

Your Spouse (Husband/Wife/Partner) is the biggest (Influential) Planet around you Astrology

All said and done we live in a family and when married our wife/husband is the closest thing we have in life. We all want to be happily married and have a prosperous life. 

By looking at the design of the chart following is a highlight...

First house represents our-self who we are and how we interacts with the world 
Seventh house represents Spouse, relationships and how we interacts with others

1st (First) house is opposite to  the 7th (Seventh) house.  That means they are totally opposite in nature and it is the mirror reflection of our nature which you are not aware and most uncomfortable with and your spouse going to tell you. By definition we and significant other is a balance that we need to achieve in life. 


Now Imagine that we have to deal with someone opposite which is our own mirror opposite reflection (this may not be if there is a friendly influence) in opinion every day. 

 e.g You may have a desire and want to do something today morning... now your spouse want to do it in the evening or just don't want to do it  or want to do it next day. How will it feel like.. it will be hard to take a totally opposite view of things we want. Since 7th house is also for partnerships we constantly need to work on... to come to common grounds.. if we want a balanced relationship.. like wise in some ways we need to do the same with the Spouse/Wife/Husband. 

In some ways most of us constantly needs to work on the relationship, for those who have good relationships may be working on it subconsciously.  For those who are having issues and hard times.. probably this should be an indicator to start managing the relationship with more thoughts than emotions. In Love marriages we bringing emotions first in the relationships , so it makes it hard to come to the common grounds. 

e.g If one is optimist for now reason the other person becomes overly pessimist, If one person is into over spending then the other person will be overly thrift. They don't want to be overly pessimist or thrift, they are just trying to balance it and messing up the relationship.. So if we are balanced that is  one step in the right direction.

Some of the things that i have learned with time is..

1) Be a good listener. Most of the arguments happen when one person does not listen/understand completely and start arguing. Try it out u'll be surprised that how many arguments can be avoided. 

2) Life is a joint venture.. the more you stay together the more you will realize. Help where ever you can in some ways you are helping yourself.

3) We need to help each other grow. If we are not helping that is a good enough reason for people to start having distance from each other.

 
Why 2 people with same aim of having a better life are not reasonable enough to agree on things that will effects both of them and their future.

 I recently was watching a program on how male and female brain works. We are wired differently since evolution..but when we look in professional environment then it may not be that different, but when we are in personal relationships then probably those things surface up.

In more cases as compared to men, women are better with colors.. So women's should stop expecting men to be able to have a conversation on fineness of colors.

 In More cases Women are better with the faces.. they can remember more faces than men.. So if men keep on forgetting the people and how they look like you should not press hard for it.

 It is perceived that Men are  good at dealing with directions, structural , trying to fix things can focus on one task at a time to complete it..

Since some of the skills are complementary it makes both as a winning team when they work together. In today's world we need to lean each others skills to be able to support our family and prosper. MAKE IT A WINNING TEAM rather than self defeating as there are so many differences that it is hard to get along sometimes/

 Figure out the best way possible to do the daily/routine tasks , that will reduce the on going  arguments and stress in life.

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Eating Right for the Right Mind and Success Astrology
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Who get's Influenced by the Planets/Stars Astrology
One-on-One(1on1) with yourself (Self Analysis) Astrology
Your (Husband/Wife) is the biggest (Influential) Planet around you Astrology
MidLife Crisis Vedic Astrology
How to Change Fate (Freewill) Astrology
Hidden Talents in Astrology

Personality Astrology
Pattern of Planets Drives our life in Birth Chart Astrology
How we Perceive the world - Self Analysis
Being at Peace Inside Astrology
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Are people Lying to us ? Probably not Self Analysis
Bad Advice.. is it Really ? Self Analysis (This is what i would do)
Technically Right … does that make you happy??Self Analysis
 Being Angry and Irritated isn't making us Happy Self Analysis
It is Hard to be Happy.. :-) So we choose to be Unhappy
There is Never a perfect time, but we need to grow up anyways Self Analysis
Understanding the Current transits to help us and others around us Astrology
The People Who Wants to talk less are the people end up talking most :-)
Asking for Answers from Others (Self Analysis)




Compatibility
Relationship Compatibility Reading in Astrology
Compatibility of Ascendant/Rising Sign Relationship Astrology
Compatibility in Husband Wife Marriage/Partner Astrology
Sexual Compatibility Husband and Wife in Marriage/Couples Astrology
Synastry of Planets (Relationship between Partners) in Astrology
Sun Sign (Aries) Relationship Love Compatibility With Other Sun Sign
Your Husband/Wife) is the biggest (Influential) Planet around you Astrology
Husband/Wife/ Karmic  Relationship  (Synastry) Rahu and Ketu in Astrology
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