Sexual Compatibility Husband and Wife in Marriage/Couples Astrology

Sex plays a major role in marriage for happiness. If couples are satisfied with each other sexually definitely it is very strong glue between couples and there is less chances of couples to wander here and there. In astrology there is a unique kuta system which is used to check sexual compatibility between couples. In this system each Moon nakshatra belongs to an animal and according to that animal the person has sexual behaviour. Every animal has a unique way of sexual behavior and according to that animal humans have similar kind of sexual behaviour. You can observe animals. Those animals who are enemies to each other they also act enemy to humans also. We all know snakes and mongoose are enemies. It also works in the same manner in humans also. e.g. if women have serpent yoni and men have mongoose yoni then they are not compatible with each other. In fact they don’t like each other. It can create problems between couples. According to the matching there are points assigned to these nakshatra. Minimum point  is 0  and maximum points is 4.  There is a pair in nakshatra, male and female.

There are two kinds of Yoni Kuta

Nakshatra Yoni

 

	Male	Female	Animal Yoni
1	Ashwini	Shatabhisha	Horse
2	Bharani	Revati	Elephant
3	Pushya	Krittika	Sheep
4	Rohini	Mrigashira	Serpent
5	Mula	Ardra	Dog
6	Ashlesha	Punarvasu	Cat
7	Magha	Purva Phalguni	Rat
8	Uttara phalguni	Uttara Bhadra	Cow
9	Swati	Hasta	Buffalo
10	Vishakha	Chitra	Tiger
11	Jyeshtha	Anuradha	Hare
12	Purva Ashadha	Sharvana	Monkey
13	Purva Bhadra	Dhanishtha	Lion
14	Uttara Ashadha	None	Mangoose

Marriage between people of the same animal class of yoni produces great happiness, perfect harmony and children. e.g. Ashwini is a male horse and Satabhisha is a female horse. If these two people get married like women have satabhisha nakshatra and men have ashwini nakshatra, then this could be a perfect match. It is generally better if men have male Moon’s nakshatra and women have female Moon’s nakshatra. If both are male then frequent and lack of agreement around sexuality. e.g.If men have Magha Moon’s nakshatra and women have Swati Moon’S nakshatra then both are male then resulting in some conflict.

The following table shows the extent of match between different yoni. The maximum is 4 and minimum is 0.

Four out of four is excellent sexual compatibility.

Three out of four is good sexual compatibility.

Two out of four is mediocre sexual compatibility.

One out of four is bad sexual compatibility.

	Ho	Ele	She	Ser	Dog	Cat	Rat	Cow	Buff	Tig	Hare	Mon	Mang	Lion
Horse	4	2	2	3	2	2	2	1	0	1	3	3	2	1
Elephant	2	4	3	3	2	2	2	2	3	1	2	3	2	0
Sheep	2	3	4	2	1	2	1	3	3	1	2	0	3	1
Serpent	3	3	2	4	2	1	1	1	1	2	2	2	0	2
Dog	2	2	1	2	4	2	1	2	2	1	0	2	1	1
Cat	2	2	2	1	2	4	0	2	2	1	3	3	2	1
Rat	2	2	1	1	1	0	4	2	2	2	2	2	1	2
Cow	1	2	3	1	2	2	2	4	3	0	3	2	2	1
Buffalo	0	3	3	1	2	2	2	3	4	1	2	2	2	1
Tiger	1	1	1	2	1	1	2	0	1	4	1	1	2	1
Hare	1	2	2	2	0	3	2	3	2	1	4	2	2	1
Monkey	3	3	0	2	2	3	2	2	2	1	2	4	3	2
Mangoose	2	2	3	3	1	2	1	2	2	2	2	3	4	2
Lion	1	0	1	2	1	1	2	1	2	1	1	2	2	4

One can check points from this table. Which nakshatra is most compatible and which are not.

The most compatible animal is elephant and least compatible is lion. As we know elephants are very docile animals but lions are not. 

Animals which should be avoided as they are natural enemies. 

1. Cow and Tiger

2. Elephant and Lion

3. Horse and Buffalo

4. Dog and Hare

5. Serpent and Mongoose

6. Monkey and Goat

7. Cat and Rat.

Apart from comparing Moon’s nakshatra of each partner for sexual compatibility one should also compare the planets and houses relating to lovemaking, romance and sex pleasure in the horoscope. Such as a planet of love for Venus, 5th, house for romance and 7th, 12th house for bed pleasure. 

 

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Marriage/Wedding Date Astrology

Firstly it is important to bear in mind that a marriage is not merely a particular contractile arrangement between two consenting adults. It is the union of two entire families and many of the rites in the wedding ceremony stress this important fact. Marriage transforms one’s entire life and put into a whole new area of responsibilities, obligations,happiness and growth or no growth on spiritual level. Indian society is very complex and sometimes seems very horrible especially for women. Because it is the women who leaving her house and adjusting with husband family. Everything to do with India it’s terribly complex! Right? So Marriage is not a social contract temporarily entered into under the influence of romance or dissolved at one’s pleasure but it is the most important religious sacrament, necessary for every individual to realize fully one’s potential and to fulfill the responsibilities which one’s owes to one’s self, one’s family, and to society at large. Marriage, therefore, is to every Hindu, not merely institutionalized pleasure, or primarily a source of gratification of sentimental longings or romantic loves, but an act of duty, a matter of moral and religious obligation and a duty on everyone in all normal situation. So Marriage is big decision in everyone life and therefore it very important to choose marriage date carefully.

Those people who believe in Astrology is the big help for them because there is always influence of planets according to their astrologically position in the sky. As above, so below, It pays to know in advance what kind of planetary alignment in the sky so that marriage ceremony should perform without any hassle. having a good astrological date according to the planets in the sky may avoid many problems in marriage.

Importance of the days of the week which comes in the panchang.

Monday: Is good.

Tuesday: Not good. Those people marry on Tuesday, they always have quarrelsome problem in their married life.

Wednesday: Is good.

Thursday: Best day

Friday: Excellent

Saturday: Those people marry on Saturday have obstruction, delay and increase chances of divorces.

Sunday: Not good.

Now comes on the planets.

Moon: There is phases of moon .

Waning moon: Not good.
Waxing moon: Is good.

There are some tithi ( dates) which are good and some are not good.

The lunar cycle takes a total of 30 days, that is, from one New Moon to the next. The days of the lunar cycle are called Tithis. The tithis are numbered from 1 to 15. they repeat for each half of the lunar cycle. Each of these “lunar days” also has specific effect. Certain tithis are positive, and others tithis are considered negative, and therefore more chances towards problems. The 4th, 9th, and 14th days of the lunar cycle both the waxing and the waning halves are designated as Ritka, i.e., empty for results. The Rikta tithis are generally avoided for marriage ceremony.

Now comes to the Venus planet of love:

Venus is strongest in the signs of Taurus, Libra, and Pisces: Is good.

Venus conjunct with Jupiter: Is good for wedding

Venus in the signs of her detriment and fall like, Scorpio, Aries, Capricorn and Virgo: Not good.

If Venus retrograde: Not good.

If Venus conjunct with Saturn, Mars and Sun: Not good.

House in the birth chart:

Planets in angular houses are the most powerful planets in the chart. Pick a time for your ceremony when the benefics, Venus and Jupiter, are angular and well aspected in the wedding chart.

When Venus or Jupiter transiting to the Ascendant, or 7th house cusp of the chart: Is good.

When Saturn, Mars or Sun transiting to Ascendant, or 7th house cusp of the chart: Not good.

The Lunar nodes, Rahu and Ketu are always opposite each other, are placed in the 1st and 7th house for one of the parties. Rahu, the planet who causes eclipses, when posited in the first and 7th house: Is NOT GOOD.

These are some astrologically configuration which should be look for marriage date.

Checking Compatibility A Hindu marriage arrangement is good way to check whether two people fulfill their marriage dharma or not. It is good way to negate situations like separation and divorce. In Indian culture divorce is still a social stigma and very tough on women who are not working or depending on their husband for living. So when entering into a marriage arrangement it is with the understanding that you will be together for the rest of your lives — come what may. One should not take it lightly, thinking - "O well, if this doesn't work out we can always get divorced and try again!" Therefore ideally marriages should only be contracted when there is the highest degree of compatibility between the couple. So the first step in getting married is to find out your compatibility score.


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Remedy for Broken Relationship in Astrology

When we go through difficult times in life or break in a relationship and feel the suffering, we need to remind ourselves that the Universe does not hurt us, but rather seeks to transform within us. But often transformation begins ruthlessly by taking away the things from us, we think we need most or we love the most. Not only do hard circumstances take away our relationships, but they give us some glimpses into our own “flaws” and what we need to improve. So what can we do when our wounds, our ugliness, or when our unloving feelings arise?

The healing work starts first beneath the surface of consciousness. Just like a physical wound heals from the inside out. We might be wise to tend to this wound in a very similar way to any other wound. Here are some things to consider:

1: Take your time out: When you are wounded you stop. Just as when you are sick you go to bed, so also do the same when your “heart is breaking”. Your energy flows inward to question and grieve, leaving you little energy for anything else. Give yourself a break, slow down, and take care of your basic needs: Food, rest, and basic self-care.

2: Try to know what is the problem: What is a difficult time to tell you something? Is this the last wound of a broken relationship, ( e.g. Saturn transit over your natal Venus ) How do you describe the condition, how long have you had it, and how did you get it? The wounded heart often needs some time to heal. You can do some of these things.

3: Create a Get-well Plan for yourself: Apply something to calm the pain down. Go inward to find the healer within yourself. This inner healer, speaking perhaps this time with the voice of divine power. Your own intuitive healer may say you’ve got to write it out, paint it out, cry or rage it out, or simply clean your house with a passion. Let your inner Saturn as healer, although things have changed, but they are moving in new directions with new possibilities. You may benefit by getting away for a while from your home or circle of friends. Go for a retreat or vacation to some place where you can gain perspective. Even a day away, or something to break up familiar routines can help.

Considering surrounding yourself with things that innately hold inspiring energy, or simply things you love, color, plants, and enjoy your time with nature, is a good way to overcome your depression. This could be allowing yourself things you’ve tended to deny yourself. Why not get yourself a pet, fresh flowers, a musical instrument, or whatever else you may have put on hold. After divorce, many people hated the loneliness of a double bed. So they can bring anything like an aquarium and are delighted in watching the fishes. Consider what lessons or insights can be gained and be open to the idea of how this experience can generate new possibilities for you. Move beyond shame and blame. Find out what was unconscious and invisible in the relationship. Keep cleaning your fears, anger, and irritation. It hurts, but you need to understand the part you played in this wounding. So it won’t be repeated in the future. During difficult times we often regress to obsessive-compulsive coping patterns. So by admitting your anger and your less-than-perfect behavior, you cleanse the wound with a deeper level of understanding.

4: Make a plan: The plan is your attitude and your healing therapy. It will be temporary and will need to be changed. Stick with your plan even when it’s hard. If you re-expose yourself to your ex-partner you are re-engaging in the shame/blame game. Don’t expose yourself to this wound again unless you’re with someone that can help you.

5: Give time to heal yourself: Protect your heart from the sometimes toxic advice of well-meaning friends, and resist the urge to expose your vulnerability to the world. So be patient and pace yourself. Can you create some scheduled routines and “dates” in your week? This could be as simple as knowing that on what day you can go to yoga, gym, and walk in the morning for 20 minutes. Every Saturday night you can go out to dinner with friends, and every Sunday night you can call someone whom you trust, for a heartfelt talk. Put the schedule up in a place. If you feel you need it. Like all wounding, full healing takes time, but we don’t have to suffer constantly. Build trust in yourself, that you are loveable and that we can love again. Trust in the process, forgive yourself if you’re not perfect. With time you will see the wound is healing beneath the surface.

6: Natural therapy for depression: Take plenty of fresh juice, green vegetables and sprouts e.g. alfalfa and mung daal. you can take cottage cheese and butter milk if it suits you. Take fresh lettuce, celery, grape fruits, or apple juice especially in the night before sleeping.

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Tara System in Jamini Astrology

‘Tara’ means Birth Star (nakshatra) and Tara is calculated to assess compatibility of the other planets nakshatra from the birth star of the individual. It gives clear picture of how the other planets have relationship with the birth star.

To calculate this, you need to take into account the Janma Nakshatra of the person and count in the numbers including janma nakshatra. Whatever numbers comes to the planets it shows what kind of result you will get in that planet mahadasha..

This system use for those people who don’t have their birth time but know their date of birth. There are 27 Nakshatras which Vedic Astrology divides into 9 categories of birth stars, namely-

1. Jenma Tara: which is used to assess the looks of the individual.

2. Sampath Tara: fortune; to assess wealth and prosperity. It is considered to have a good effect.

3. Vipath Tara: disaster; possibility of difficulties or problems in life. It is considered to have a malefic effect.

4. Kshema Tara: well being; to assess prosperity. It is considered to have a good effect.

5. Prathyara Tara: obstruction; to assess possibility of obstacles in life. It is considered to have a malefic effect.

6. Sadhaka Tara:  aid; to assess success.It is considered to have a good effect.

7. Vadham Tara: disagreement; to assess sufferings or any hardships in life of the person. It is considered to have a malefic effect.

8. Maithra Tara: friendship; It is considered to have a good effect.

9. Parama Maithra:  intimate friendship; to assess success and It is considered to have a good effect.

This system also used in marriages to check compatibility between couples. And if it is match then couples gets 3 points in ashtakoota system.



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Masculine and Feminine flow in Relationship

The terms masculine and feminine are terms used to describe active and passive energy.  Masculine known as male energy and it's active and positive. Feminine energy is described as female energy and passive and negative energy. Masculine energy is outward and action oriented which we can relate with man and feminine energy is inward which we can relate with the women. As we know women are defined differently than men. Women are more emotional than men and their physical needs are different than men. Women need to take care of their body more than men because women have different bodily functions than men.  Women want more nurturing, caring, connection and love to feel good. Men are different from women on a mental level and also on a physical level. Men's needs are different from women's. Mens are more outward and they want to connect on physical level rather than emotional level. 

So masculine and feminine flow of energy is very important in a relationship. This flow should be in the right direction, otherwise there will be problems in bonding between couples. A man should be in masculine role and a woman should be in feminine role to feel good in a relationship. Depending on masculine and feminine energy of a couple they interact with each other. In relationships women want to experience her feminine nature and men want to come to experience their masculine nature. So women want to be with a man who is in the initiating role and she can surrender, relax in her feminine power and men want to be in an initiating role where he can feel his masculinity. If this flow is reversed then there is a reversal flow of energy. If women in initiating roles and behaving like men then men will not like it and if a men behave like a women be passive and not doing any action, women will not like and this could be a triggering point for couples not interested in each other with time. Basically in relationships we're putting ourselves in a situation where we want to experience our gender in a powerful way like men want to come to know their masculine nature and women come to know their feminine nature in relationships.  

In the relationship astrology how to assess an individual's chart for relationship potential. This is probably the most important and overlooked factor in any relationship assessment.  We need to assess each individual's potential for masculinity and femininity energy in relationship by checking planets in signs. whether planets  are in mascaline or in feminine signs. . 

In astrology there are 12 signs and each sign ruled by planets. There are six signs which are masculine and six are feminine. All the fire and air signs are masculine and all the water and earth signs are feminine. Feminine signs tend to be much more reserved and reactive, while the masculine are much more outgoing and active. 

Masculine	Feminine
Leo ( Sun )	Cancer  ( Moon )
Virgo ( Mercury )	Gemini ( Mercury )
Libra ( Venus )	Taurus ( Venus )
Aries  ( Mars )	Scorpio ( Mars )
Sagittarius ( Jupiter )	Pisces ( Jupiter  )
Aquarius ( Saturn )	Capricorn  ( Saturn )

                                                                                      

As we know all the planets exist within us in the form of astral bodies.  If we look at Vedic south indian chart, the planets connect with feminine and masculine energy of the chakra system of the human body and they exist in pairs. e. g. Venus in Taurus is feminine and Venus in Libra is masculine. The concepts of masculine and feminine are universal. These masculine and feminine energies exist within us through the chakra system and it shows up when we interact with another person. 

In a man's chart, I will look at the capacity to initiate and to have confidence to have the capability and to stay consistent in our life because men are looking to bond and connect with their masculine in a relationship; this is what gives a healthy and positive feeling in a relationship. Sun, Mars and Jupiter are masculine planets, so they should be in masculine sign in man’s chart. if these planets in feminine sign than man have a crisis of masculinity by being in a situation with a woman who is having a crisis of femininity. For women these planets should be in feminine signs and if not than women trying to initiate relationships which do not feel so good. So a Woman looking for a  man who has capability, consistency,  strengths and confidence so that she can relax in her femininity. 

Venus and the Moon are feminine planets and they should be in feminine sign in the woman's chart and in masculine sign in the man's chart. Venus is the planet love sex, fun, beauty and where we find beauty. Moon is the emotion and heart’s capacity to feel joy. In a man’s chart if  Venus and Moon should be in a masculine sign it'll be more initiating and if a woman’s Venus and Moon is in feminine sign it will be more aligned with her gender integrity. If it is reversed than women in initiating roles in love and men in receiving roles in love which does not feel so good. Therefore masculine feminine interaction is incredibly important in relationships and it should be checked properly. 

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Full Moon in March 2018

Full Moon in Virgo march 31 2018: There is full Moon in the Sign of Virgo in the Nakshatra of Hasta. Full is the time to balance the energy which was created on the New Moon.. Where we all are full on with the energy of pisces. But Now on the full Moon we harmonizing the energy of pisces with the energy of virgo. Pisces and Virgo both are opposite in nature. So on New Moon we are no more in delusion and escaping energy of pisces. New Moon in Virgo is about how can things can be work out, engaged in worldly activities and stay In balance.

Hasta Nakshatra rule by planet Moon, extending from the zodiac of Virgo 10°20' to 23°20' Virgo sign. The symbol for this nakshatra is the palm of the hand. The primary deity is Savitar, the Sun God, who promotes creativity. He is called “the golden handed one”. The shakti of Hasta is “the power to manifest what one seeks and place it in their hands”. Hasta people can have great dexterity and are skilled with the healing arts, and with handicrafts. Hasta is ruled by the Moon, and in the sign of Virgo, ruled by Mercury, reflecting the very mental, intellectual nature of this nakshatra. This the star of knowledge, action, Creativity and determination. This Nakshatras are selected as Muhurta for Selling, medical knowledge, using & handling of medicines, literature-music-art, the 64 Kala Shilpa (various arts, sculpture etc.) jewellery making and wearing. The animal associated with this nakshatra is a female Buffalo which reveals the passionate, sensual nature experienced here.

Full Moon will be aspected by retrograde Mercury. So the full Moon aspected by retrograde Mercury. So this full Moon will be very reflective on your conscious level and voice of your head might be confusing.

Mercury Retrograde in March-23 till April-15-2018: When planets are in retrograde motion, their energy can be considered strong. Mercury is the planet of communication, short distance travel, paperwork, computers, wire, siblings etc. Whenever Mercury retrograde there is some precautions need to be taken related with these things like, don't sign any contracts, because you don't have all the information, try to avoid short distance traveling, because anything can go wrong. If Mercury retrograde trigger individual planets in chart then there is form of some stressful situations, there can be feeling of misunderstandings and miscommunication. However, Mercury retrograde is always is positive reconnecting to friendships, acquaintances you have lost touch with. Mercury retrograde is not favorable for initiating new projects but it is good for editing and working and making the idea of project even stronger and better.

Mercury retrograde in pisces will affects differently to each ascendant.

Aries Ascendant: it will retrograde in 12th house.

Taurus Ascendant: it will retrograde in 11th house.

Gemini Ascendant: it will retrograde in 10th house.

Cancer Ascendant: it will retrograde in 9th house.

Leo Ascendant: it will retrograde in 8th house.

Virgo Ascendant: it will retrograde in 7th house.

Libra Ascendant: it will retrograde in 6th house.

Scorpio Ascendant: it will retrograde in 5th house.

Sagittarius Ascendant: it will retrograde in 4th house.

Capricorn Ascendant: it will retrograde in 3rd house.

Aquarius Ascendant: it will retrograde in 2nd house.

Pisces Ascendant: it will retrograde in 1st house.


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