Saturday, August 1, 2015

Darakaraka (Partner /Spouse) In Astrology


Generally in astrology there are two marriage significator planets and they define what type of  partner you will get. Jupiter and Venus are the most important planets when we look for married life because Jupiter is the karaka of husband in a women chart and Venus is the karaka for wife in a man chart. By looking at the house in which these planets are placed one can predict about the place where one can meet the spouse and by their sign placement one can predict about the temperament of the spouse. But it gives only half information about the partner. 


In Jaimini astrology there is darakaraka. Darakaraka is the planet who has the lowest degree in the chart and it signifies the nature of the spouse. Depending on which planet has the lowest degree the person gets a spouse according to the planet's nature.  The sign of the darakaraka planet plays a major role in explaining what kind of nature darakaraka planet has. If darakaraka planets are conjunct or aspected by other planets (whether planet is enemy or friend). If it is aspected or conjunct by a friendly planet then it is going to help the darakaraka planet and the person get a good partner.  But if it is an enemy then it is going to harm the darakaraka planet and the person might get a partner who would not be supportive.  If the darakaraka planet retrograde, combust it also affects and shows different kinds of nature. 


e.g. if The Sun in Aries is a darakaraka planet, then the person gets the spouse who has nature like Sun in Aries.  But if there is Sun in Libra sign, then the person gets a spouse who has nature like Sun in Libra. As the planets change sign the nature of the partner also changes. However these are the general behaviors of the darakaraka planet in the chart.


Rahu and Ketu are not considered Darakaraka, because they are not the physical planet.


Following are the results of planets if they are darakaraka in the birth chart and you like to attract these kinds of partners in your life. 


Sun is the darakaraka: The person gets a spouse who has Sun-like qualities and these are status oriented, leadership quality, stability, steadiness, pride, creative, capable, and they want too much attention. Jupiter and Mars are the Sun's friends. If the Sun conjunct or aspected by these planets they are going to help the Sun they add the value of these planets. The Moon is friendly to the Sun but in conjunction it does not help but when it aspects the Sun it is going to help. Mercury is neutral to the Sun but it is going to help the Sun. And if Mercury conjoins with Sun it makes Budha Aditya Yoga which means a person is intelligent And they get an intelligent partner.  Venus and Saturn are the enemy of the Sun. If the Sun conjunct or aspected by Venus or Saturn then the spouse will create frustration in life. 


Mercury is the darakaraka:  The person gets a spouse who is very communicative, and friendly in nature.  Mercury is a fun loving planet. It is like enjoying more than hard work and commitment. These people get a spouse who is very fun loving and enjoys things in life. If Mercury is sitting or aspected by Venus it is going to help Mercury and the person get a good spouse. If Mercury sits or aspected by Saturn it hurts Mercury. They get a spouse with whom they don’t like to spend time. The Moon is an enemy of Mercury and if it joins or aspected by the Moon then the person gets a spouse who could be emotionally unstable and It's going to frustrate. Jupiter is a good planet. It boosts wisdom, hope, and happiness to the planet with it conjunct or aspect. Mercury with Jupiter is good. It opens the relationship and makes it more enjoyable. Mercury is good with the Sun until it combust. 


Jupiter is the darakaraka: The person gets a spouse who is very optimistic and hopeful. These people often get partners who behave like a teacher in their relationships and with others. They are inclined towards those who are very helpful, happy, lucky and cheerful. Jupiter's natural friends are the Sun, Moon, Mars. If Jupiter is sitting or aspected by them it is going to help Jupiter and the person get a good spouse. Mercury, Saturn and Venus are enemies of Jupiter; so they are going to frustrate the partner.


Venus is the darakaraka: The person drawn towards a Venus- like person. They will get a spouse who is balanced, deal maker, charming, social, beautiful, compromising and have a lot of romantic desires in them. They are very romantic and like to compromise with their partners. The Sun, Moon, and Jupiter are the enemy of Venus. If Venus is conjunct or aspected by these planets frustrates the partner. Saturn is Venus friend, but Saturn is a cold and harsh planet and it frustrates Venus when it sits with it. But it is going to help if it aspects Venus. Venus with Mars and gives over passionate nature to the partner.


Saturn is the darakaraka: The person gets a serious kind of older partner who is very committed in relationships. They are least romantic people but very loyal to their partners. These people are not easily adjusted and very firm in their decisions. Saturn is a very antisocial planet and these people are not adaptable. Saturn is reserve, cold, serious and likes to live in reality. But Saturn is very good for long term relationships. They know what they want. They are very realistic in relationships and they choose the right partner in their life. Saturn is the enemy of Sun, Moon, and Mars. If Saturn is conjunct or aspected by these planets they frustrate the partner and they have a hard time with. The Moon with Saturn makes a person very sensitive and emotional in nature. Saturn has two friends, Mercury and Venus. Saturn aspected by these two planets gets help in relationships and the relationship will be more enjoyable and fun loving. 



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Duty and God how do they play into our life

After doing a bit of analysis I think duty is kind of reciprocation or appreciation of source we can gain  from and not become a burden on the society. It is our duty to see an end to an action initiated by us... be whatever it be...

(This article will be work in progress for quite sometime.. as I am trying to articulate the concept of duty as mentioned in the ancient text and try to probably relate it to the life today.)

e.g.
#Our DutyWhy
1We should respect out parentsbecause they gave us birth and take care of us
2We should respect our eldersas they are learned and guide us in life
3We should respect the lawAs it protects us and our family and provides us an environment to grow
4It is our duty to take care and educate our kidsAs kids are our support in the old age
5It us our duty to take care of our familyAs when we take care of our family they take care of us and we all can prosper
(there is hierarchy of duty, the greater the good the higher it is in the hierarchy. It is our duty to be righteous as it is above all duties)

If we cannot give back to the source of our existence.. we have modeled it and given it a form of GOD/Nature or Universe.

  • We have God of Sun
  • We have God of  Air
  • We have God of Earth
  • We have God of Desires  e.g God of Love, God of Money, God of knowledge
As these are the building blocks of life these energies have influences on us. Each planet around sun has been idolized and their influences have been characterized. 

Overall if we look at it.. it is our duty, give respect, protect the living, worship and thank the energies around us. We needed a form to be given to GOD/Nature for us to thank. That thanks and appreciation became worship... the more we appreciate,focus and value the more we have in life.. This is the law of nature/universe. These energies drive us.. we need to engage and live a meaningful life. Negativity does not help in evolution of Soul.

That is why the study of these influences/energies is the highest of all as it has the potential of untangling us from negative influences, make us a successful and happy. We should channelize the positive influences in us  and overturn the negative.. it will help us living a truly balanced life. 
Our life/soul is an energy which keeps on transforming from one form to another.

I love my Little Girl.. Being a Learner

I have 2 children. The younger one is 5 years old and have started to learn thing. I am trying to spend more time with her so that we can work on her learning as she grows.

Initially when ever we wanted to learn or do something she would be like "I don't know" or "It is hard" or "I don't want to do it" or "I don't want to do it now".  These were all the things I was hearing and it was getting really hard on me to get any thing done with her.

I guess she didn't wanted to do things that will show that she doesn't know or if she would struggle.

From observation I saw that she is into drawing things.. so i started working with her on her drawing.. Since she like it .. she started working with me ..  With time I started giving her little tough drawings.. she took time .. had to learn a bit and was able to draw better.. So I started linking if she learn she can do it and it takes multiple tries to get it right..  If she learn and do something.. everyone around her appreciates her which makes her happy and it is fun.

Now she understands that 
  1. As she grows she needs to learn thing.. 
  2. It takes multiple tries to learn
  3. Once we learn there is still room for improvement
  4. She is happy and people are happy around her.
(In the bottom there are astrology articles related to child)
She is now a learner and is very excited  to learn new things with in limits :-) apt for her age.

This made me think about myself.. 
  1. Am I a learner willing to learn new things? 
  2. What's stopping me from learning? 
  3. If I am a learner will  it make me happy?

Learning is not only @ work.. we need to be learning new thing every day be it .. relationships, people and so many other things.. If I make learning as my attitude how will it change my life .. Most of the time we are suck in the past and get stale.. the life start slowing us down.. if we slow down what will happen to us..

With children we see how exiting it is to learn new thing and it is good.. why do we loose this excitement when we grow? A good question to ask ourselves.

It is nice to have children as they kinda make us think about life again

Remedy of Jupiter (Bad Husband) Astrology




In Jaimini Astrology Jupiter is the karaka of husband in the women's chart. Jupiter is the planet of luck, wisdom, higher knowledge, teachings, children, and wealth. A woman is mostly looking for all these things from a husband as well.

 

A woman wants someone’s guidance, happiness, children, support, and wealth in her life. These all things are presented or provided by the planet Jupiter. Therefore when we want to check for all these things we look for the condition of Jupiter. Women generally are weaker physically if compared with a man. She always wants support from men. This support provided by Jupiter. If Jupiter is in good dignity in a woman's birth chart then there are chances she may get a good husband. But if Jupiter dignity is bad, then there are chances that she may get a bad husband in her life. Bad husband or Jupiter simply means the man not providing any emotional support, abusing verbally or physically and not present when a woman needs him emotionally. But there are always some remedies. If we apply in our life we can avoid many unpleasant things in our life.


Remedy of Bad Husband/Jupiter:


So if some women have bad Jupiter then they can work on it and can live happily. First of all a woman should understand what is the planet Jupiter all about. When she understands what is Jupiter and what is the role of Jupiter in life then she can better relate and work on it. Jupiter is a planet of wisdom, higher learning, creativity and spirituality and much more.


The women need to cultivate spirituality in her life. She needs to cultivate spirituality in her marriage. Spirituality in marriage means woman happiness should not depend on the husband but she should be happy in every relationship. She needs to learn happiness does not exist outside but it exists within. Then a woman can attract a virtuous man in her life. There is no need to please her husband by doing superficial things. Jupiter is the planet of wisdom and spirituality. The woman needs to cultivate all these things in her personality then she may attract a good husband because we always attract what we are not what we want. If a woman feels depressed in her love life and feels empty in her life she needs to work on her hurtful feelings rather than developing some kind of bad habit. A woman needs to take care of herself. She needs to cultivate creative aspects of life and try to find happiness within herself. When we are depressed we try to find happiness in others and run here and there. We try to console our mind by eating excessive food because food also can give temporary happiness. but by doing all these things we simply mess up more of our life. By doing all these things we attract unworthy men in our life. So women need to cultivate inner joy, wisdom and spirituality in her life so that she can attract a good husband.

 

Praying Lord shiva is very beneficial in getting a good husband. Because Lord Shiva works through Jupiter. If a woman prays to Lord Shiva then she is able to cultivate spirituality in marriage, inner joy and wisdom. A woman can worship any spiritual deity in which she believed in her culture.


Life is a mystery, sometimes women suffer a lot due to a bad husband in her life. Even though she thinks I did not do anything in her life why did this happen to me. In astrology life is through karma of many past lives which we don’t remember. There is the law of karma what we sow we get. So one should be careful and mindful about their behavior. Unless we don’t do good we cannot get good. We should look at the bigger picture of life in which we all are one. We belong to one source with different names. We should try to connect with divine sources, and unless we don’t develop divinity in our attitude we can’t get good in our life. When a woman suffers from a husband she should try to develop Jupiter quality within herself, so that she can get a good husband in her life. 


Nature of Jupiter is changed if any planet is sitting next or is aspecting Jupiter.



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