Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Second Marriage in Astrology




Second marriage in life is scary, because there are fears around second marriage. When a person suffers in the first marriage he is forced to think about what kind of second marriage would be. There are many questions that arise in the mind of the person for the second partner.  These are very normal things questions to have for these people to think in that way. 


There are very many reasons for breaking off first marriage and according to the reason for breaking off marriage the person has fear around that. The question is that are these people prone to bad or wrong kinds of relationships ?  if yes  then what is the remedy for that.  


Generally 7th house energy will remain the same and we are prone to attract relationships according to our 7th house energy throughout our life. But with time we get our relationship lesson and matured and have understanding about relationships. I have seen in my life there are people who always attract the wrong kind of relationship due to their own unnecessary desires. We can not get everything in life, but at some point in life everyone has to compromise. One needs to understand what is more important kama (sensuality)  or dharma (righteous path). Those people who follow their desire (sensual nature) are more prone to the wrong kind of relationship. 


We all know astrology based on past life karma. Even in Bhagavad Gita Lord Krishna says  “what you sow you shall reap”. No one can escape the power of karma. So what can you do to cancel your bad karma of past married life? 


Astrologically, first of all these people need to understand their 7th ( relationship) house energy and the condition of the 7th lord. There can be one or two or more planets in the 7th house and the 7th lord can be placed in a difficult house or with the difficult planets. According to that they can manage or avoid their wrong kind of relationship.  


I have already written many articles about 7th house. for each ascendant 7th house ruled by different planets. 


For Aries Ascendant seventh house  lord is planet Venus. 

For Taurus Ascendant seventh house lord is  planet Mars. 

For gemini Ascendant seventh house lord is  planet Jupiter. 

For cancer Ascendant seventh house lord is  planet Saturn. 

For leo Ascendant seventh house lord is  planet Saturn. 

For virgo Ascendant seventh house lord is  planet Jupiter. 

For libra Ascendant seventh house lord is  planet Mars 

For Scorpio Ascendant seventh house lord is  planet Venus. 

For sagittarius Ascendant seventh house lord is  planet Mercury. 

For capricorn Ascendant seventh house lord is  planet Moon. 

For aquarius Ascendant seventh house lord is  planet Sun. 

For pisces  Ascendant seventh house lord is planet Mercury.


So you need to check what planets are in the 7th house and the condition of the 7th lord. If there are malefic planets ( Saturn, Mars, Sun, Rahu/North node  and Ketu/South node ) in the 7th house.  Or if your 7th lord in the malefic houses ( 6th, 8th and 12th ) and with the malefic planets then you have tough relationship karma. 


If a seventh house or seventh lord is afflicted by Saturn, then the person needs to marry after age 29. If the person marries early there will be chances of divorce and the person may have a second marriage and the second marriage kind of serious and committed type because there is always Saturn influence in the marriage even after the first marriage. 


If the seventh house or seventh lord is afflicted by Mars, then the person needs to check his/her manglik status and should marry a manglik person or should do remedies for manglik dosha like marry with three or kalash. Otherwise a person is prone to have abusive relationships. 


If the seventh house or seventh lord is afflicted by the Sun then the person needs to learn humility, otherwise ego can be the reason of divorce. 


Influence of Rahu and Ketu in the 7th house or on the seventh lord give many marriage problems. The person who has ketu/south node influence should learn not to criticize their partner.  Rahu/north node influence people should learn to be faithful with their partner. 


Those people who have more influence on many malefic planets in the 7th house or on the 7th lord, they suffer more. They need to be more careful while choosing a partner.  e.g. for Aries ascendant if 7th lord Venus with Ketu, Saturn and Mars in 8th house, then it really going to give a difficult relationship. This person is prone to get an abusive relationship therefore they should be more careful in choosing a partner.  


What to do if you are suffering or attracted by the wrong kind of relationship?


1. When you are attracting the wrong kind of relationship, it means you did something wrong in past life and now in this  lifetime you need to rectify your karma by your conscious effort. You need to track  your relationship and analysis if this is the same as the previous one. If yes then stop yourself from indulging in wrong kind relationships.  


2. One should try to fulfill their duty in every relationship because the person is in a wrong kind of relationship due to his/her own undutiful karma of previous life.   


3. Change your energy vibration of bad karma of past lives by following spiritual paths so that you can attract good people and relationships in your life.