Showing posts with label Divorce. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Divorce. Show all posts

Friday, September 11, 2015

Venus influence in Divorce, Marriage, Relationship Astrology

If we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble :-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it.. but just do it  like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards down and be who we are without any pretension.  For a marriage to work there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
  1. Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
  2. Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
  3. Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
  4. Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
  5. Aggression, argument and fighting  (Mars)
  6. Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
  7. Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
  8. Learning, teaching, higher wisdom  (Jupiter)
  9. Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
For this conversation we will consider Venus as a planet in relationship, its influences and how it can get us near a divorce if we don't understand it the subconscious influences and change our habits and approach in relationship. 

 Venus represents capacity to love, relationship, fulfillment of desire, luxury in life,  compromise to get happiness, dealings with people with balance, sensual pleasure like sex
 
Let's consider one by one how these are important..

Venus represents capacity to love, relationship: Venus is a planet of relationship and love and what are we willing to do for it.. If Venus is not in a good dignity (Venus in Virgo) then we are not willing to be flexible in love and relationships.. we are practical in nature and we are not caring enough for people and care about ourselves only.. which is not a good thing for relationship and cause people to move away from us.

Venus represents fulfillment of desire, luxury in life: When Venus is with malefic planet (Venus with Ketu) our desires are not fulfilled and we don't get what we want which cause us to be frustrated and mistreat people around us. Which is not good for the relationships. We should be loving and forgiving so that our desires and wishes in life to be fulfilled.

Venus represents sex & sensual pleasure:  Venus is a charmer imagine we are rude and don't want to indulge in sensual pleasure with our partner (Venus with Saturn). This is not helpful for a  relationship. In a relationship we should be a equal partner to be happy.



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Friday, September 4, 2015

Moon influence in Divorce, Marriage, Relationship Astrology

If we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble :-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it.. but just do it  like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards down and be who we are without any pretension.  For a marriage to work there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
  1. Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
  2. Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
  3. Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
  4. Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
  5. Aggression, argument and fighting  (Mars)
  6. Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
  7. Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
  8. Learning, teaching, higher wisdom  (Jupiter)
  9. Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
For this conversation we will consider Moon as a planet in relationship, its influences and how it can get us near a divorce if we don't understand it the subconscious influences and change our habits and approach in relationship. 

Moon represents mind, emotions, peace and connection.
 
Let's consider one by one how these are important..

Moon represents mind : When mind is uneasy (Moon with Rahu or combust Moon) get's complicated. Mind is how we perceive what other person is saying and if we have a calm mind we are able to understand what is being said. Imagine if we cannot thing through what is being said and not have a stable mind.. this will cause havoc in a relationship. Meditation can help us calm our mind.

Moon represents emotions: When moon is not in a good dignity (debilitated Moon) we will not feel emotions of others ( Moon with Saturn) and will not have empathy which is a key to a successful marriage. We should try to be have empathy in relationship which can help us connect and prosper.

Moon represents peace: When we are at peace the world and the people around us look likable and beautiful.  When we are not at peace opposite is true.  Moon represents peace of mind , if moon is disconnected ( Moon with Ketu)  our peace of mind will be disturbed which directly effects our relationships. If understand your mind this can be very helpful in understanding your disconnected emotions and help in spiritual  practice. In this situation Meditation can help us calm our mind.



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Sunday, August 30, 2015

Rahu (North Node) influence in Divorce, Marriage, Relationship Astrology



If we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble :-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it.. but just do it  like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards down and be who we are without any pretension.  For a marriage to work there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
  1. Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
  2. Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
  3. Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
  4. Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
  5. Aggression, argument and fighting  (Mars)
  6. Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
  7. Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
  8. Learning, teaching, higher wisdom  (Jupiter)
  9. Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
For this conversation we will consider Rahu (North Node) as a planet in relationship, its influences and how it can get us near a divorce if we don't understand it the subconscious influences and change our habits and approach in relationship. 
Rahu is the point in our subconscious mind where we want grow towards in life, Rahu is never satisfied, chaos in life, amplifier of the things, obsession of what we desire, illusion and possibility in life, it is future. Rahu also bring stress and fear in life.  So if Rahu influence on 7th house or Rahu with Venus  etc), it makes you unsatisfied with relationship. 


Let's consider one by one how these are important..

Rahu (North Node) can cause us to be never satisfiedWhat happens we are not satisfied, we are not happy and keep on complaining (Rahu in 7th house). If this happens a lot in a relationship The other person has no way to make you satisfied.. which can cause lot of stress and eventually lead to stress in the relationship. In a relationship we should figure out what is achievable and aim for it. Sometime we do have to aim more than what is achievable as it is a need .. and we need to work on it to achieve.

Rahu (North Node) can cause amplification of desire & obsession: Rahu causes amplification of desires ( Rahu with Venus) which can lead to obsession of desire. As said obsession is not a good thing in relationship.. may be that is  good thing in work life , but still it needs to be with in limits otherwise it creates a imbalance which is not good for the relationships.

Rahu (North Node) can cause illusion and possibilities in life : Rahu is obsession and obsession can cause illusions and very high hopes without a  plan of achieving them in life. (Rahu with Jupiter and Jupiter rule your 7th house) . If we have high hopes in a relationship and there is no way to manifest it or we are not willing to put an effort to achieve it .. it will cause the partner to be stuck with high hopes related with partner and where we are not able to achieve as we may not have any plan.. this can cause lot of stress in the relationship.

Rahu (North Node) can also bring chaos, stress and fear in life : Since we are trying to achieve stable emotions ( Rahu with Moon ) and have not figured out how exactly it will work out or have the energy to achieve it or have the time .. it will cause chaos , stress and fear of not achieving in life.. with all these things going around the relationships becomes primary.. which can cause stress in relationships..





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Friday, August 28, 2015

Mars influence in Divorce, Marriage, Relationship Astrology

If we have to consciously breath.. i guess we will all have faced a situation when we would have forgotten to breath and would be in trouble :-). Like breathing we do lot of things subconsciously.. in some ways they are the habits that build up with time .. we don't think about it.. but just do it  like wise when we are in marriage we let our guards down and be who we are without any pretension.  For a marriage to work there are couple of following things that are needed .. some are subconscious influences which with habits we try to overcome.
  1. Love,Respect, Compromise for each other (Venus)
  2. Have no ego in relationship (Sun)
  3. Having a feeling of Disconnect (Ketu/South Node)
  4. Crazy in love & Relationships (Rahu /North Node)
  5. Aggression, argument and fighting  (Mars)
  6. Emotions, mind, imagination (Moon)
  7. Understanding things correctly (Mercury)
  8. Learning, teaching, higher wisdom  (Jupiter)
  9. Commitment and Duties (Saturn)
For this conversation we will consider Mars as a planet in relationship, its influences and how it can get us near a divorce if we don't understand it the subconscious influences and change our habits and approach in relationship.


Mars is will power for getting things done and vitality, it's our ability to take action. Mars is very impulsive and spontaneous It also represents anger. Mars represents the sexual energy, physical side of love, passion and energy

Let's consider one by one how these are important..

Mars is action,will power for getting things done and vitality: This is very important for life and in general relationships, if we don't have will power to do something we will not be able to. Life is tough, expansive and challenging, it is very much required.

Mars is anger,impulsive and spontaneous: This is a surprise.. sometimes we like the impulsive nature of a person or the spontaneity in them.. in a relationship both the person needs to be into it, if not get's tough to be with a person who wants to do something exciting at the middle of the night or no where. Anger is something that is always challenging in life and relationship if we have it .. it can make the relationships tough  

Mars is discipline and  courage to follow right thing: In someways this is key to a successful married life. If we are not into it then why are 2 people living together , there could be other reasons .. if this does not exist then then people can get distance among them and that can make a relationship tough.

Mars/Mangal Dosha : This is a know fact in astrology that a Mars/Mangal dosha that if a person has a strong hyped up mars they should marry a person with the same energy as other people will not be able to deal with the aggressive nature of the Mars person.


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Sunday, July 13, 2014

Saturn and Relationship/Marriage/Love in Astrology


Now a days many people suffering from relationship problems. Some May have breaks in affairs and Marriage alliance before Marriage. Many people think that only Saturn in seventh house can give problem in relation or in Marriage, but this is half-truth. Saturn can give problem in Marriage and in relationship if Saturn conjunct 7th or aspect lord in your birth chart. 

For each ascendant 7th lord is different, no matter where ever 7th lord is placed in your chart, but if it is placed with Saturn it will give problem in relationships or in Marriage.

For each ascendant 7th lord is:

Aries Ascendant: Seventh Lord is Venus, if Saturn is conjunct with your Venus in your birth chart, you May face problems with relationship and Marriage. Although Venus and Saturn are friends in astrology but when Saturn conjunct with Venus it starve Venus and make it sick. You May get wealthy partner but May not give happiness.

Taurus Ascendant: Seventh Lord is Mars, if Saturn is conjunct with your Mars in your birth chart, you May face problems with relationship and Marriage. Saturn and Mars are worse enemy in astrology. When Saturn conjunct with Mars you get aggressive and abusive partner. You need to watch out while choosing partner.

Gemini Ascendant: Seventh Lord is Jupiter, if Saturn is conjunct with your Jupiter in your birth chart, you May face problems with relationship and Marriage. Saturn and Jupiter are neutral to each other, but Saturn does not leave anyone from his hard lesson. You May get difficult partner or husband. Your partner can be atheist, who doesn’t like Jupiter things.

Cancer Ascendant: Seventh Lord is Saturn, you already have tough karma related with relationships and Marriage as Saturn rules your 7th house.  

Leo Ascendant: Seventh Lord is Saturn, you already have tough karma related with relationships and Marriage as Saturn rules your 7th house.  

Virgo Ascendant: Seventh Lord is Jupiter, if Saturn is conjunct with your Jupiter in your birth chart, you May face problems with relationship and Marriage. Saturn and Jupiter are neutral to each other, but Saturn does not leave anyone from his hard lesson. You May get difficult partner or husband. Your partner can be atheist, or who just don’t like Jupiter things.

Libra Ascendant: Seventh Lord is Mars, if Saturn is conjunct with your Mars in your birth chart, you May face problems with relationship and Marriage. Saturn and Mars is worse enemy in astrology. When Saturn conjunct with Mars you get aggressive and abusive partner. You need to watch out while choosing partner.

Scorpio Ascendant: Seventh Lord is Venus, if Saturn is conjunct with your Venus in your birth chart, you May face problems with relationship and Marriage. Although Venus and Saturn friend in astrology but when Saturn conjunct with Venus, it starve Venus and make it sick. You May get wealthy partner but May not give happiness.

Sagittarius Ascendant: Seventh Lord is Mercury, if Saturn is conjunct with your Mercury in your birth chart, you May face problems with relationship and Marriage. Saturn and Mercury are good friends in astrology. It May give a creative or communicative partner but difficult lesson will be always there for you. Saturn never leaves anyone from his hard lesson, be ready for that.

Capricorn Ascendant: Seventh Lord is Moon, if Saturn is conjunct with your Moon in your birth chart, you May face problems with relationship and Marriage. Saturn and Moon are just opposite in nature. Moon want peace and connection of feelings and Saturn is about responsibility and duty, which Moon doesn’t want to take. This is a very tough conjunction for Married life and relationship in general.

Aquarius Ascendant: Seventh Lord is Sun, if Saturn is conjunct with your Sun in your birth chart, you May face problems with relationship and Marriage. Very tough conjunction, two arced enemies together which leads to problems in Marriage and relationships. Saturn and Sun are just opposite in nature. Saturn just crushes the ego of the partner. Ego will be the main problem in relationship.

Pisces Ascendant: Seventh Lord is Mercury, if Saturn is conjunct with your Mercury in your birth chart, you May face problems with relationship and Marriage. Saturn and Mercury are good friends in astrology. It May get an intelligent and skillful partner but difficult lesson will be always there for you. Saturn never leave anyone from his hard lesson, be ready for that.

Saturn is very difficult planet. It does not give difficulty with where it placed it also give difficult with which planet it conjunct. Even aspect of Saturn on your seventh lord or in 7th house give problem in relation and Marriage.  

Venus is the planet of relationship for both Women and Men, even Venus is not your 7th lord but if Saturn conjunct with Venus it will give problem in relationships.

There is story about aspect of Saturn. When goddess Parvati gave birth to Lord Ganesha, she invited to everyone on his ceremony to give blessing to the Lord Ganesha. Saturn denies to look face of lord Ganesha but goddess Parvati insist him to look. After so many requests from Goddess Parvati, Lord Saturn look or aspect to Lord Ganesha, as Saturn Look to Lord Ganesha his neck cut off.

The message of this story is that no matter Saturn is your friend or relative, it always difficult. There is always someone in your life who will bring difficulty in your life depending on the Saturn placement in your birth chart.

Remedy: Don’t marry before first Saturn return which comes after 29. 7 years. So just wait for until you reached at the age of 30 years. It’s very tough to wait so long. If you want Marry early then go ahead but ready for the difficult lesson of Saturn in relationship or in Marriage.

Pour water on Shivling on Saturday and ask forgiveness for you mistakes.

Don’t pour milk it is better to give milk to someone needy children, it will help you to dissolve your bad karma of past life related with your relationship or Marriage. 

Saturn teaches, what to learn in this life