Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Disharmony(Problem/Unhappy) in Married Life Astrology

We all want to married and want happy life, but sometimes it does not happen. Even for  love marriage after sometime they lose interest in each other. What are some astrological reasons  people have unhappy married life. Life is an evolutionary process, everyone go through some hardship so that they can mature mentally and better understand life. We all faces problems due to our weakness and get into trouble until we overcome the weakness and get mature mentally. Expecting all the happiness is not possible as we need to understand life and life is not only marriage. The people who have problem in married life have lesson in life that they need to evolve through that difficulty in their life. They need to understand and look beyond what  other thing that makes them happy.

Venus is the planet materialistic world. It is the planet of happiness for both men and women and wife in man life and we all know woman is major factor for happiness in man life. By looking condition of the Venus in the chart we judges about what type happiness one can get.

There are many astrological combinations which shows problems in married life whether marriage is love or arrange. Venus with Ketu can be a major factor in failure in love. Ketu is the planet of detachment. It is not a planet of this world it belong to the other world. Whenever Ketu comes with Venus those have difficulty in getting materialistic happiness before marriage or after marriage. They get a partner who is not interested in Venus stuff. But it does not matter they get spiritual partner. Ultimately we all have to go beyond the materialistic world at some point in life whether in this life or in other life. So these people need to understand life is not about materialistic world they need to look beyond this world so that they can live happy life. Happiness does not just lies in the married life it exist in other things as well.

Venus with Rahu especially in 7th house makes person overly desirous for multiple partners which create problem in married life.

Venus with Saturn in 7th house makes person abusive which create problem in married life. Although Venus and Saturn are friend but when Saturn sit with Venus it frustrate Venus.

Venus with Mars in 7th house also create problem in married life. It make person argumentative and win argument at any cost, this called manglik dosha in vedic astrology.

Venus sitting with Sun means it get combust
. Sun is supreme light. It show the right path. We can’t see in the dark we can only see in the light. When Venus comes with Sun, it purify the Venus. Because Venus is the planet of materialism, those who have Venus with Sun make people selfish, but selfish can not get happiness in return. If some one want love they need to give, Venus love always give and take. It is Moon love which is selfless not Venus love. So if those have Venus with Sun with need to learn give love others so that they get love in return.

Same thing happen with if Venus come with Moon. Moon is mind . And Venus come with Moon the person mind filled with Venus materialistic stuff and makes them selfish.

If Venus is hemmed between malefic planet like Rahu, Ketu, Saturn, and Mars makes married life miserable.


Venus comes in the 6th house also the reason for disharmony in married life. Sixth house represents unpleasant things in life. Those people who Venus in the sixth house their married life get disturbed due to some partner disease, conflicting nature, and want to deal with life. And can be many things.

7th house lord significator of marriage partner, if 7th house lord sitting in 6th house, 8th house and 12th house makes married life unhappy, or if 7th lord sitting with any malefic planets like Rahu, Ketu, Saturn and Sun makes married life unhappy.

These are general reason unhappiness or disharmony in married life before checking kuta system which is matchmaking system in vedic astrology

Happiness is not about only physical love it varies according to Venus sign and house placement. Definition of love also varies, some people think that only physical love is only love but it is not like that, those people who are good soul or saint they are doing good for the society is the also form of love, they believe in love for all and happy for no reason is real happiness.